When i was honored with Her collar, I was instructed to get a box to keep it in. I found this one, and I present it to Her properly at the beginning and end of every session
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The luckiest submissive in the world that belongs to Ms. @exoticafox.bsky.social🦊 👠
I love the incremental process of building a dynamic, one session and correspondence at a time, connecting simultaneously in D/s roles and as friends Some truly rare and special moments happen. I am so lucky and grateful for this chapter of my life. I know it will end at somepoint so I cherish it
People often think BDSM is about novelty or shock. That was never the draw for me. I came for the depth. The most profound experiences I’ve had weren’t spontaneous. They were built patiently through time, with people who trusted me enough to go somewhere neither of us could have reached alone.
The whole point of relationships is to feel understood. If not, they can feel incredibly isolating.
We talk a lot about relationships. Still, I keep noticing that loneliness can exist inside a relationship too.
Black soles on high heels have become more popular. I miss the tan sole. Obviously, shoe companies/ the customer like black because it shows wear and use less. I like a worn sole. I like seeing dirt and scuffs on the bottom of women's heels.
Perhaps the most fascinating part of entering the ProDomme scene is seeing a community wrestle with the reconciliation of all these truths: - ProDommes are human above being providers - Domination is a luxury and a privilege, not a service
One thing that is distinctly NOT a vibe about being a SW with an active social media presence is that people you've cut off over the years still have a level of access to you, even if it is just observation.
It's not just hot to serve a Domina. I love all the sexy stuff! But, what i love most is how centering it is psychologically On the surface, D/s looks the way it does. Deep down, it's all semantics for safely pushing limits with someone else - which is the essence of what it is to be human
Had to get a new phone because my old one was breaking down. I lost all my emails and chats with Ms. Fox. Proton has all my emails encrypted and Signal wouldnt transfer my account in the sign in. I am very sad. A significant part of my dynamic was just lost forever 💔
First thought: a stack of desired books tied beautifully to a Louboutin box of heels. I’m served tea, and the generous slave is used as a foot rest while I read.
Tired: gifting "my" Mistress stilettos 👠 Wired: gifting "my" Mistress books 📚
Tired: gifting "my" Mistress stilettos 👠 Wired: gifting "my" Mistress books 📚
Omg! The most ruthless device for pain in the whole world!! 😲😳
I like it when a sub books a last minute session. What brush will I be using on his bottom 🤔
A gentleman opens doors, offers his seat, makes space for ladies, offers to carry things, and does many other things that communicate he’s mature and dependable, because he understands that his strength is truly valuable in the context of his community, and using it wisely is what gives him status.
I was flogged so hard that it felt like I was hit with a solid object.
Even the largest extroverts need decompression time at some point. They must retreat into some solitude for a little Them-time.
Drop a topic and I will Quote post it with my take :)
I Iove discussing kink and D/s on here.
First and foremost approach our whole lives with a heart posture of gratitude makes us more adaptable to challenges and difficulties. Being grateful for the opportunity to learn and grow exceeds doubt, angst, and regret. 1/3
Oooh delightful. 😁 What lessons can we take from submission and surrender that extend beyond kink?
I am a planner by nature. Yet, in session, i never know what to expect so I have to be more spontaneous. In that setting, it feels liberating. The 2nd question - when the submissive fully arrives into submission headspace. We all take a moment to transition out of out vanilla headspaces.
Have to spend a little time thinking about it. Then again, i tend to to overthink a lot. So, how about spontaneity vs. planning. In sessions. In life? What makes a session take flight, catch fire?
Desire is the spark. But to truly serve a Dominant, the submissive must display devotion. I think Dominants show devotion to Their submissives too. Different kinds of devotion. The consistency and recognition that comes with devotion is very meaningful and personal. It demonstrates care. I agree.
Oh, fun! =D I moderated a D/s dynamic class last week where the presenter’s main thesis was, “Devotion is the fundamental driver of a D/s dynamic.” What are your thoughts on this sentiment?
Drop a topic and I will Quote post it with my take :)
I Iove discussing kink and D/s on here.
Fascinating aftercare discussion on here As a submissive, we may desire it and it's hot, yet pain & degradation still can cause heavy psychological reactions Inversely seems true for Dominants. Dominants might desire inflicting pain & degradation, might be hot. It can also be a lot to administer
All these kink engineers patenting alll these pain play toys to cause suffering and the thing that hurts the most is the damn hairbrush, my goodness!
I have celebrated my birthday and the Mistress I belong to's birthday with sessions. During my birthday session, I recieved birthday spanks. During Her birthday session, i recieved birthday spanks.
I have celebrated my birthday and the Mistress I belong to's birthday with sessions. During my birthday session, I recieved birthday spanks. During Her birthday session, i recieved birthday spanks.
I am not expert. I believe Aftercare compatibility is lowkey a sneaky huge factor in building fulfulling dynamics. Almost as important as kink alignment itself. (And discussing it showcases self-awareness, social emotional maturity, and communication skills. All important skillets to evaluate)