Quest

@powderherface.bsky.social

a lousy but fabulous flop.

as a romance writer i try to keep up with all the terms to describe every kind of relationship, non-relationship, and in-between, and sometimes i hear one that just sounds like the default kind of courtship (like "simmering") but honestly? having a separate term normalizes that is NOT the default

also my life lesson is: u gotta have something you want desperately thats giving you feelings (a job, a partner, whatevz) so when it upsets you you always want to focus on yourself and make your life better. boy didnt text u back? time to study! recruiter was mean to u? clean your room/house/apt

i was watching a movie the other day and realized i cant be ragebaited bc i am not easily offended. dont get me wrong i spent some years being prone to offense so i know ya can grow out of it wee ones. but its like when u have no expectations youre never disappointed. if ppl trying to make content

they shouldnt have given me the "power" to use the bathroom during a hold since i cant go into break code after we close bc now im doing it during normal calls so i dont have to waste break time for it

fellas (using the feminine 'a') i just woke myself up laughing from a dream where i was trying to go to the bathroom at, like, some arcade-staurant and a parent and the kid banged on the door hard enough that they opened it and i said i wasnt done, but when i got up to wash my hands, i told them

why would the guy im into send me a photo of his pov sitting in a comfy chair at work bein all sleepy like i see that and i get cute aggression i wanna sit on your lap fool

i've been promoted twice in the last 2 years (at two different jobs) and the first time it was 3 months before i was supposed to be allowed to get promoted and i still think im "not professional enough" and that something is secretly wrong w me and im the dumbest person alive

every time i experience something very normal and human i look up if there is a scientific explanation or scientific timeline to recovery from said normal human experience

my life may be a bit sucky right now but - two people i just met/barely knew farted in front of me yesterday and i feel honored they felt safe and comfortable in my presence doing it bc they know i'm not judgmental - i saw a rainbow in my new city for the first time the other day

Starting training for the new job today and beginning the production schedule in two days. I'm super nervous. With the new schedule I'll have time to work on projects and clean my house before I go in at least!

everybody has their "completely inaccurate" immediate turn off in fiction and i'm probably the most forgiving person in the world about all of that because i love fictional exaggeration and one-off situations but my number one immediate turn off is people being completely ignorant about weed

wish my partner hadn't described aspects of the new job as golden handcuffs two days before i start work 😾😿 i'm planning to hold out as long as possible but my autistic burnout happens so quick because i can't really mask, like, at all