Abby

@proactivebusybody.bsky.social

It's not you. I talk this much to everyone. Psychologist. Soprano. Shutterbug. She/Her 🍉

One of the great joys of my adult life has been realizing that I can just pick up a new skill every so often, take a fun little class in it weekly for a year or two, and simply enjoy meeting people and getting medium proficient and not attempting to become professional in it at all!

On a MARTA train at the airport in Atlanta. One sports fan says to the other sports fan that he’s waiting for tickets to the game to come down. Other guy asks his budget. He responds $3,000. THREE THOUSAND DOLLARS! Holy crap!

Sports fans bonding on MARTA train in Atlanta.

I had ants coming through the crack in the window, so I put out a Terro trap. Been using them for years. This one is right where I can see it, and honestly, I'm getting really sad watching more and more ants march to their death. I wish I could just get them all to do a U-turn and go back outside.

Just deleted my Waze account. New TOS dropped. "The Service is provided by Waze Mobile Ltd., a company incorporated and operating under the laws of Israel, and located at 98 Yigal Alon st., Tel Aviv, Israel." Nope! Absolutely not! 🇵🇸

Forgot to charge my noise canceling headphones so I’m listening to two kids seated behind me play D&D and reading the pamphlets in their seat pocket. One kid just said, “if this is a land evacuation, I’m taking my stuff!”

Flying today, and it so dystopian to me that my ticket now says “Ms” on it. This is not a term I ever use for myself, and I wonder if most people notice that this is the fascist playbook and specifically for disenfranchising trans folks.

If I could use AI only when I choose to, in the ways I choose, I wouldn't hate it so much. I've used Wolfram Alpha for years, and I appreciate being able to ask questions using natural language. But I am very against generative AI because of its resource hogging and intellectual theft.

FUCK ALL THE WAY OFF, GOOGLE! We’re preparing to release a new feature in Google Vids that will allow users to create a personal avatar using their own face and voice... Starting no sooner than July 14, 2026, the personal avatar feature will be “ON” by default for all eligible customers.

Fun fact. If you get a crown, but it falls out of your head within 7 years, your dental insurance doesn't pay for another crown. Can't wait until my $2k dentist appt tomorrow. I'd be happy to be just a guy with a missing tooth, but I've been having toothaches on the other side since it happened.

Beware the current Evite phishing scheme. I was invited to an event by someone I've been to dinner parties with recently. It seemed so plausible. I've now spent the day responding to texts and emails from ex-bosses, my therapy clients, and old people I haven't seen in years. So BEWARE!

🚨EXCLUSIVE: A commercial airline pilot tells us they filed FAA and NASA safety reports after lighting from Trump’s UFC event at the White House allegedly flooded their cockpit on approach to Reagan National. They called it “10 times worse than any laser illumination event” they’d ever experienced.

White House UFC Event Lighting Nearly Blinded Flight Crew on Approach to Reagan National

A commercial airline pilot that spoke to MeidasTouch this evening has filed aviation safety reports after powerful lighting used during the construction and

meidasnews.com

I don’t know how to articulate this, but I’d like some of my most caring and politically-minded friends to consider not posting about him for a few days. Yes, he’s the worst thing to happen to the world in a while, but I’d like that anger energy refocused on repair sometimes.