The best cloud is the one you control. Relay is built around self-hosted, end-to-end encrypted messaging where your server transports ciphertext—not your conversations. Privacy shouldn't require trusting someone else's infrastructure.
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Self-hosted, end-to-end encrypted messaging for small trusted groups. Built for calm security, ciphertext-only servers, and private coordination. relaymessenger.tishkunfamily.com
RAM Sessions are exactly what they sound like: session state exists only in volatile memory. No IndexedDB. No localStorage. No sessionStorage. No browser cache of conversations. Close the tab and the cryptographic session state is destroyed. (1/3)
The world feels less stable every year. Privacy isn't about having something to hide. It's about protecting the freedom to think, speak, and connect without assuming someone is watching. End-to-end encryption should be the default—not the exception.
Relay design note: A secure messenger should not make normal people feel like sysadmins. The hard part is not just encryption. The hard part is making the secure path obvious, calm, and repeatable.
Relay is a private messaging system for small trusted groups. The principle is simple: trusted devices can read messages. Servers cannot. Built around end-to-end encryption, ciphertext-only routing, temporary web access, and calm security UX. Not ad-tech. Not surveillance software.