🌊 retro ~ viribae 🌸

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Retro • 36 • 🏳️‍🌈 queer nonbinary 🏳️‍⚧️ • CPhT • plural system • she/they/it • married We draw art of creatures and love the ocean, obscure music, and games! Jellyfish are cool! ❌️ No AI ❌️ 🔞 No minors #art #dragon #creature #fanart #pokemon #photography

nobody pulls the trigger on no-contact over trivial bullshit and every article written about this shit pretending its some fad phenomenon executed for paltry reasons is a blight on existence itself

i'm glad the shaming of people who choose to go no-contact with parents has been largely met with a "go fuck yourself" because the only thing i regret is not going no contact sooner with the man who repeatedly shattered me to the degree that at almost 40 i still feel like a house built on quicksand

CSP being pressed to take even just /kissing/ off their asset store and FA being told that plus sized characters are considered adult should be a giant waving red flag to folks. Sex workers have /always/ been right to say these policies never stop with 1 type of content. They always wanna ban more.

When our rape happened we had to deal with the deluge of excuses for the man's behavior. "He was drunk." "He was young and stupid." "It wasn't a big deal." "There was no penetration so it wasn't real rape." Nobody cared to check on us, the victim, at all.

“It was a long time ago” “it was a one time thing” “it’s clear he feels remorse” “it’s not worth ruining his whole life over something like this” “what if what he did wasn’t even that bad” “people deserve second chances” these are the same defenses every victim hears about their abuser. every time