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i wanted to love you my whole life not grieve you
This is a reminder to not let the questions of "was it an ABUSIVE relationship, though?" or "was it really TRAUMATIC, though?" distract you from doing what you need to do w/ your self talk, mental focus, & physiology to heal your wounds & make recovery supporting choices today.
A church or spiritual group doesn't have to be an extreme cult to harm people psychologically, any more than a painful relationship has to be cinematically abusive to do damage. Whatever hurt you, hurt you. This isn't a competition. There is no minimum "bar" for pain or trauma.
talk about the Galaxy Movie turned into Peach's Castle designs
In honor of Dolly Parton and Tim Curry, the next two musicals Iโm watching are The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas and The Rocky Horror Picture Show
BlackGeekyGirl|VGen Artist@blackgeekygirl.bsky.social ยท 2mo agoFor full context, Iโm on a mission to watch every single musical, including ones that are adapted into feature films. Thereโs a whole lotta them to go through, both for research purposes and my own personal enjoyment. #musicals
Dolly Parton was an incredible human being. Her efforts to promote children's literacy, driving economic growth in her home state of Tennessee, and her open acceptance of the LGBTQ community meant so much to so many people. Fly high Dolly ๐
You can NOT trust women who sleep with oppressors and bring them into this world.
Bat princess dress interest check! ๐ This design is basically cute + gothic all in one dress ๐๐ฆ Would you wear this one?! ๐ QOTD: Are you sick of summer already and or excited for fall, or sad summer is coming to an end?
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In my experience, realistic trauma recovery asks us to limit our exposure to people who are hell bent on fighting for their right to be miserable or hopeless. Let them do their thing, w/ respect & love-- but their thing doesn't have to be our thing.
I wish people would just be more direct sometimes. Like just get to the point. Just say what you wanna say. It's easy. Get it out of your brain. Your time is limited. You will die in like 43 years just be direct and don't waste your time.
I say take your trauma recovery skills & tools-- self talk, mental focus, & physiology-- as seriously as your heart medicine or chemotherapy. CPTSD & depression are killer diseases if left unchecked-- & they will sneakily try to convince us to just let them do their thing.
Your brain is not trying to be a dick w/ the anxiety. It's trying to avoid danger & "failure." It needs reassurance, not shame-- a supportive, realistic coach, not a drill sergeant. "Self talk" may sound simplistic or superficial, but the tone & words we use w/ ourselves matter.
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Gracu โจ๐@prismagic.bsky.social ยท 4w agoHey remember when I uhhhh shrimp
Having been abused or neglected was not our fault. We did not "choose" that. The choices we make in trauma recovery are how we repair that damage & realistically build a life worth waking up to every day-- but that doesn't imply we were or are hurting due to "wrong" past choices.