Dr. Businesswoman

@ruematongo.blacksky.app

I’m told I’m a geriatric millennial, which makes sense because I almost pulled something trying to stretch. GP & a Strategic Operations Partner with my bestie. I love food, knitting & nerdy things. She/her. PSN: MeltedBook

May I ask… Why is it when there’s a funny video prompt (the one I was watching was “When I watch my long distance best friend hang out with their local friends”), a guy doing it will dress up like a woman? Are men not funny on their own? Why are they portraying us?

I played Life Is Strange years ago & I finally realise that the lesson behind the game is learning to let go & move on. It makes me think of people with terminal diseases & how we wanna prolong their life by any means necessary when they’ve made peace with it.

Also, AOT was never meant to have a happy ending. If I interpreted it correctly, it shows the reality of oppression, that no matter how much you try to demolish an oppressive system, it will come back if you’re not vigilant. See: 2026.

I recommend watching Attack on Titan to see how upholders of oppressive systems move & cause harm among their people. The first time I watched it, I truly understood how upholders of patriarchy, the “pick-me”s function. It’s very eye opening.

This doesn’t apply to me cause well, I’m married now, but I was just thinking of how many friends I lost cause my homies thought I was sending them signals. If I had wanted them, I would’ve told them. Did that straight up with the husband. Anything else is me being friendly.

If a male “nerd” ever quizzed me about my hobbies, I won’t prove my knowledge at all. I’ll look them straight in the eye, say “I don’t know,” and walk away. Will your little “you’re just a tourist” comments stop me from enjoying my hobbies? No. So go away.

If anything, my biological dad’s ancestors should be losing sleep trying to make things right, otherwise those ancestors are useless & I want no parts. That’s why culturally, if the dad’s a deadbeat, the mom’s ancestors become the child’s.

If my biological dad’s ancestors are waiting to punish me for some arbitrary slight cause we “didn’t do things the right way,” they can honestly fuck right off. Cause where were they when my mom & dad were taking care of me? They actually should be grovelling & begging for forgiveness.

I’m very fascinated by my male colleagues who have very “strict” wives; the ones who tell them to come home early and all that other stuff. I sometimes wonder if I’m wife-ing wrong, cause I’m not about to monitor the behaviour of a grown-ass man.