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PharmD. BCPS. AAHIVP. Powerlifter. Daddy. Queer. Asexual. Sister. Handler. They/Them. Bigger in person. Like, bigger. Yeah… no, bigger. 📍SEA

The assimilationists are out and loudly screaming that they’re gay not queer. Again. Assimilation never works but they’ve been trying for decades. This is my favorite read on gay vs queer. The article is 25 years old (and long) but it’s still the same fight.

The Queer/Gay Assimilationist Split: The Suits vs. the Sluts - Monthly Review

Benjamin H. Shepard is a social worker, activist, and author of White Nights and Ascending Shadows: An Oral History of the San Francisco AIDS Epidemic (Cassell, 1997), and co-editor of... READ MORE

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I’ve been stuck in online comment sections where DARVO has been raising its manipulative head, and while it’s often spoken of only in literature about abuse and gaslighting, it’s startlingl common in all kinds of contexts. (1/3)

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I saw a thing on tumblr asking about the first album you ever bought. 1992. I was 13 and very aware of my queerness. Still has some of my favorite Madonna, and the irony of the kinkiness of the title track is not lost on me. Also, MTV didn’t ban these videos as they did 1990’s Justify My Love.

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Please be advised that a noticeable taste of blood is not part of any test protocol but is an unintended side effect of the Aperture Science Material Emancipation Grill, which may, in semi-rare cases, emancipate dental fillings, crowns, tooth enamel, and teeth.

If I offer to take you to the gym, it’s a big deal. It means I know you see and respect me as a strong and knowledgeable lifter (which is pretty rare for me), that you have a real desire to learn, and that you’re committed to the process. I’m inviting you in to my place of meditation and change.

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