Sabra Boyd

@sabraboyd.bsky.social

journalist | screenwriter | comms strategist | child trafficking survivor | ex hospital admin | born on a Coen brothers movie | SabraBoyd.com

I know other countries have better parental leave than the US but are there any countries that have taxpayer-funded retreat centers and 6 months of paid leave after you’ve been sexually assaulted

Elon having college-age kids on DOGE is so much like how the cult I grew up in, the "Moonies" mostly recruited on college campuses. Young & impressionable, they don't yet have a wealth of career experience to compare this job to. So they'll do their best to prove themselves without question.

Posting this from months ago because we DO have homegrown experience with autocratic regimes in this country. In nearly half this country during the first 6 decades of the 20th century Black people lived under systems of cruelty, voter suppression, hate, state violence & corruption. Ask them!

Me last summer: “I don’t feel well.” Doctor: “Are you in pain?” Me: “I don’t know. What is pain? I’m in discomfort. A lot of discomfort.” [Doctor orders labs] Doctor: “Are you sure you’re not in pain because your kidneys are murdering you rn”

Fochti@fochti.bsky.social · 2y ago

Dr: does your head hurt most of the time? Autistic person: [thinks: well it hurts 3 days out of 7 every week which is clearly not normal, but since it's only 3/7 it's technically not "most of the time"] no :) Dr: well, then it's probably nothing! Autistic person: okay :) [dies from brain tumor]

LA County gave people just 18 days to apply for assistance after the fires. I know trafficking survivors who lost their homes and businesses and are scrambling just to survive

This is my “daughter of a Black Panther breakfast program volunteer” coming out but anyone who tells you that you have to be public about all your resistance activity should immediately be under suspicion for being an op, or being under the influence of an op

When I was a teenager I performed a reverse strip tease on the same stage as Jinkx Monsoon where I seductively put on more and more layers of clothing until I was wearing 5 coats and fell over, drenched in sweat. For some reason, my career of dressing like a sexy Michelin Man never took off

You know why the Black Panthers were so feared by the fascist establishment? Because they served free breakfast among other very tangible things. May every good thing we create and work toward be as tangible and powerful as free hot breakfast

When you’ve been sexually assaulted by multiple family members, it’s a kind of trauma that is wholly different. I’m not saying it’s worse, but please don’t tell me that incestuous sexual assault is similar to date rape. I feel genetically cursed. My family and I should not exist

Being autistic preserved me and kept me safe and alive as a kid being tortured by my trafficker/dad — but as an adult, being autistic is making nearly every aspect of my life impossible

I keep wishing I could schedule when violence or sexual assaults have occurred in my life, but then I remember that there’s never a good time to “schedule” an assault. Ugh, the attempted grasps for control and order is one of PTSD’s weirder symptoms lol