who is planning to watch "9 to 5" tonight? RIP Dolly

it takes zero energy to accept another person's way of life that does not impact you. "oh, that's not what I would choose for myself but I'm glad it's working for you!" if you can't say that, maybe examine why you feel the need to control this person's choices?

if you have an excellent point but call the OP the r-slur at the end of it I'm blocking you

calling someone "low IQ" is ableist and can also be racist in some contexts so remove it from your insult deck

every morning if my dog has refrained from shitting in the house, I give him a biscuit when I get up. this morning giving him his biscuit I said to him: "Only a boy expects to keep getting rewarded for doing the bare minimum."

if generative Ai and LLM's were instead called by the number of gallons of water a single prompt uses, or the number of cancer diagnoses in an impoverished community of color... at least we'd know those still voluntarily using it have no ethos remaining

made a quiche, wore white without spilling on myself, and talked a friend's ears off about the novel I'm working on. I AM INVINCIBLE.

Did we ever come up with an official name for the phenomenon of there being 30-40 feral subs to every one available dom?

insomnia is the weirdest curse, because why am I up at 3am just chilling? reading, picking up the house, making banana bread at the strangest hour

Instead of participating in propaganda today, check out #SettlerSaturday and give directly to an Indigenous person or family in financial need

when you call other people slurs, I block you. maybe one day you'll want to do better, but until then I'm not here to hold your hand or convince you of the power of kindness. do that work on your own.

getting sick of the "unethical dom harms their poor wittle subbie" trope in every piece of kink media. please tell another story. maybe one about subs who don't communicate effectively and have poor emotional processing, sending every dom they play with into years of therapy...

the first ethical billionaire will be the person who invents a wearable device that only does one thing: crash hidden camera glasses so hard they can never turn on again

very important lesson: learn to recognize the difference between an ignorant person speaking, and a person who gets off on getting yelled at saying inflammatory things to bait you into participating in their fetish without negotiating or gaining your consent first

when a man calls a woman in his past "crazy" he's really saying: "She correctly identified my pattern of bad behavior. I prefer to malign her character rather than take responsibility for my actions. And if you attempt to hold me accountable, I'll do the same shit to you."

cops murdered a 1 year-old baby in his car-seat and a golden-doodle wearing a Knicks jersey. do you understand why we say ACAB? why we say Defund The Police?

Make Yourself Harder To Control: - build a supportive diverse friend group - be active in hobbies & clubs - volunteer - read - after watching entertainment media, write a reflection or review - practice bodily autonomy (change your hair, wear makeup or nail polish, get body mods)

when his legs are RIPPED but he refuses to wear the 3" inseam shorts that body was made for 😭

giving yourself permission to do something poorly or at 50% or just to try it, that sets you free

lotta people out there trying to frame their desire for control as "loving gestures"

after a 3 year hiatus, my stalker has returned like a sequel no one asked for

you would be shocked to know how non-existent the "safety net" is for disabled people. believing that sick people receive help and dignified care is like believing in the tooth fairy.

Happy Pride! 🏳️‍🌈 There are a lot more than two genders, please feel free to be attracted to as many of them as you like!

people are being really cruel to bisexuals lately. writing a little smutty trilogy where all the bisexuals end up loved and happy just for us 😘

dudes who run around being inconsolably bitter and caustic... you know this makes you unfuckable, yes? no one wants to bang a joyless sack of shit. try smiling. give a compliment instead of an insult. stop taking your feelings out on other people, I swear it'll help.

every person who has uploaded a fanfic past 1am their-local-time is an infinitely better writer than someone who uses AI

How To Be Attractive: - be open to learning new things - find joy in the mundane - be free with compliments, compassionate in criticism - take care of your meat-sack - show up for your loved ones - put on a good song and shake your ass Repeat until the right people find you!

If the NHL is so worried about how they'll be fictionally portrayed in S2 of Heated Rivalry, perhaps that's an opportunity to reflect and confront the history of real-life homophobic behavior that the fiction is drawing from.

if you won't go to bat for trans people, unfollow me right now, we are not friends

I've had to intentionally alter my writing style because of AI. I need people who read my writing to know that I'm a person putting my thoughts into a keyboard, not a data center giving everyone in a small town cancer.