⚔️ SALEM ⚔️

@shockcollars.bsky.social

Salem | They/Them, Sir/Ser | 🔞 MDNI transmasc butch lesbian (the gender kind) WARRIOR KING, MASKED EXARCH OF THE BROKEN CHAIN, HOOF OF THE WANDERER AND CLAW OF THE KINGDOMLESS, KINDRED SWORDHAND ETERNAL OF THE TYRANT Owner of @magseidolia.bsky.social 🐇

oh so you're new to the whole being a stupid little animal on lady circe's island thing? that's funny. i was actually born like this. in the body of a pig, I mean. yeah. I'm pretty sure I'm her favorite pig on account of how easy it comes to me

You do not owe anyone play. You do not owe anyone kink. Not to say it’s your fault if your consent is violated, it's not; just to emphasize that someone doesn’t have to do anything explicitly wrong for you to not be comfortable with them, & that it's okay to end a play partnership on those grounds.

And I want to be clear that, even if your consent isn’t *technically* being violated, but someone is constantly prodding and poking at your limits in a way you don’t like, or they just make you uncomfortable in general, *you are always, always, ALWAYS free to end a scene or a play partnership.*

Hey sweeties! It’s good to see y’all again ♡ So, a while ago, as you may remember, some of us held a Kink Safety Week! Unfortunately, there’s also a flipside to that that very much requires addressing - how to recognize someone who is very much unsafe to play with.