Sinister🏳️‍⚧️

@sinisterdenial.bsky.social

She/her. Domme, hypnotist, rigger, sadist, disabled. Twister of minds and denier of orgasms. Half of Mesmerotic & all of EdgeSluts.

It's not that I think you're necessarily inherently beneath me. There's probably nothing about you yet that makes your rightful place beneath my boot. But I want there to be. And I have the drive, the will, and the talent to change you until there is. Until you give me everything as you should.

Currently at a festival and it’s really got me wanting to dive back into my fae approach. Twisting your mind with glamour and enchantment, using your careless words against you. Speaking binding Truths that hold you tighter than any chains. And getting absolutely viciously sadistic with it.

It’s a real shame that the equipment is very large and (presumably) extremely expensive, because causing a sub that much pain and knowing it caused permanent changes to their body would be a fucking hot scene. …which reminds me it’s long past time I branded @hypnohedonist.bsky.social again.

Sinister🏳️‍⚧️@sinisterdenial.bsky.social · last wk.

Repeatedly reminding myself that the pain is worth it as I get shot in the face with lasers repeatedly. Because damn it really is hard to remember sometimes. Ow.

I find myself caught in a dilemma. On the one hand I want to hold onto as much of my confident, intimidating self as I can, hide the struggles and bad days. Have a place that I can pretend. On the other, that means days at a time silent, feeling more isolated from the community I love.

When twisting someone into a headspace that they find deeply embarrassing - particularly when it’s also making them incredibly horny - it’s important to occasionally rip them from that headspace to let them realise what’s happened. You get the cutest little reactions…

It's that time of year again! If you don't fit neatly into the gender binary, please fill this out, as a service to me, or just for posterity. 💖

Gender Census@gendercensus.bsky.social · 3w ago

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Promotional image. Title: Gender Census 2026. Text: If you can't easily put yourself into just one of these two boxes, you are invited to take part. Images: On the left, a box with a Venus/female symbol on it, patterned with tree bark. On the right, a box with a Mars/male symbol on it, patterned with grass.

To be clear, I’m perfectly capable of putting even the fiercest toy in their place. I just like the thought of someone having to overcome their own resistance for me, fight all their instincts as I demand more and more demeaning demonstrations of their “voluntary” surrender.

Sinister🏳️‍⚧️@sinisterdenial.bsky.social · 3w ago

I need to start weaponising my fatigue against cocky toys. "Oh, you're tough? You don't give in easily? Well, if you fight back at all you're making me use too much energy. You're going to have to let me do any fucked-up thing I want, or everyone's going to think you're ableist."

I need to start weaponising my fatigue against cocky toys. "Oh, you're tough? You don't give in easily? Well, if you fight back at all you're making me use too much energy. You're going to have to let me do any fucked-up thing I want, or everyone's going to think you're ableist."

There's something truly delightful about taking a busy, clever mind and... simplifying it. Knocking free all of those busy thoughts. Reducing it to simple things. Basic desires. Short, easy words. Docile acceptance and agreement. It's not intelligence play, not quite. Just... simplicity.

During a round-table for content creators I asked for advice in building my audience - advertising, etc - back when I thought I was a guy. Was told “no one wants that, have you considered giving up on making files and just writing scripts for other people to use?” I’m still mad about it.

S R Jones @aegisimmemorial.bsky.social · last mo.

If you see this, please tell me the worst/most baffling bit of creative feedback you've ever recieved. Mine is still the time somebody told me my aliens had names that were too alien. Not that they were unpronounceable, just that they didn't sound enough like human names.

It’s good to have a reminder that no matter how tired I am, how much of a physical disadvantage I might have, I can still rip what I need from a toy’s mind and force them to be what I demand of them. I needed and got that last night. I won’t let anything stop me getting more powerful than ever.

A great set of recommendations - I use and teach several of them, or variations on them. Two points I'd add: It can be helpful to make your subject's regular safeword a "self trigger" that will disengage other suggestions, the familiarity can help. And it's vital to not assume that this is enough.

Storyteller@storyteller13.bsky.social · last mo.

Okay folks - continuing off from where we left off last week. We talked about some of the things that you can do to keep yourself safe when engaging in hypnosis - but I also mentioned something else, which we're gonna cover now. Hypnotic Safeties and Safety Triggers - A Rant! Let's go!

I’ve just realised that now I’m not working, once I find the capacity to make things again I can be absolutely unhinged. There’s no need to make things appeal widely any more! I can be as fucked up as I like, make files that it would be a terrible idea to listen to. Can’t wait.

I really wish the company I'm trying to buy a wheelchair from understood that "we can make the frame any colour" (what was promised) isn't the same as "we can make the frame any colour from the RAL system" (what is true). Turns out RAL sucks for purple.

The issue with a dommebreaking kink is that the more you see someone post about how powerful and confident they're feeling, the more you want them... but want them in the "broken helpless toy" way, which probably isn't what they're intending. Though I have my doubts about some of you.