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@sociallyinfluence1.bsky.social

AuDHD Dyslexic founder. I couldn't make neurotypical tools work, so I taught myself to vibecode and built Ideafetti. It catches your idea before it vanishes, hands you a spark when nothing does, and turns it into a finished post in your voice. Start free 👇

Asked my own app out loud if I was in the weeds today. Nobody answered, because it's software, but also because I already knew. I'd fixed three small things instead of filming one post, and called it productive. A fix can't be judged. A post can. That's the whole reason I keep choosing the fix. What

6 hours fixing a 3 character bug. No lunch, no water, gone. Came up for air and my posting queue had been empty for 9 days. Didn't notice once. Hyperfocus doesn't pick important, it picks interesting. So I stopped trusting my memory and built the refill into a system.

The idea from Tuesday is still in your head. What's missing is the path back to it. Two different problems. Everyone sells you the fix for the one that isn't yours. Where do yours go? Mine have taken up permanent residence in the shower.

Spent a whole semester of high school Spanish convinced I was just lazy. Turns out dyslexia scrambles the order sounds come back out in. Nobody mentioned that to me until I was 38. Anyone else get handed the wrong explanation for years?

Sat down at 10am to fix one button. Looked up at 4pm. Button fixed. Also: no lunch, no water, one very concerned dog. Hyperfocus is a productivity method the way a house fire is a heating solution. What did you lose a whole day to this week?

My notes app has three notes titled "IMPORTANT." None of them say what's important. One is just the word "Tuesday." Past me was clearly onto something. Past me also did not leave a forwarding address. What's the most useless note you've ever left yourself?

Spent 6 hours straight on one broken publish step today. No lunch. No water. The fix was three characters. Claude wrote most of my app. I own every bug in it. That's the deal nobody explains about vibecoding. Who else reads every line before it ships?

Everyone says ship the simplest version. My brain sees the whole pile at once and refuses to leave half the patient on the table. Feature creep isn't a discipline problem. It's an ND brain that can't unsee the rest of the problem. Builders: what did you refuse to cut?

My "automation" was me, loading posts by hand every Sunday. I forgot one Sunday. The publisher ran 9 days checking an empty queue. A system that needs you to remember it isn't a system. It's a chore with a nicer name. What do you think is automated but is secretly you?

I failed Spanish twice and got an A in sign language. Same brain. Nobody told me those could both be true. Dyslexia diagnosis at 38 explained a decade of "weird" choices that were actually my brain solving problems it couldn't name. What did your diagnosis explain?

Someone asked what my content system is. I said "vibes and panic." They laughed. I was not joking. The fix was never a better system. It was deleting the part where I have to invent something from nothing at 9am. What's your actual system? Be honest.

Sunday plan: do nothing. Actual Sunday: three hours redesigning a settings page nobody has complained about. I don't have a work-life balance problem. I have a this-is-genuinely-what-I-want-to-be-doing problem. From the outside they look identical. Which one are you?

Friday check-in for the ND founders: the thing you didn't finish this week isn't evidence of anything. It's just Friday. I shipped one big thing and left a pile of half-things open. Normal week, not a failure. What did you actually finish? Count the small ones.

I dug into my analytics and found out 94% of my landing traffic was bots. My one real number: 13 signups in 30 days. Publishing it anyway, because pretending my chart goes up and to the right helps nobody. What's your realest number right now?

Every coach told me to batch my content. Sit down, make twenty posts, schedule them out. My brain heard "homework" and refused to make anything at all for a month. Batching works for brains that obey calendars. Mine negotiates. Does batching actually work for you?

I named my company after the mess. Ideas that hit fast and vanish faster, like confetti you can't catch. Ideafetti. I built the net because I was tired of watching them hit the floor. What would your brain's mess be called if it had a name?