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Locked Up Living Neil Wallace (Audio); So We Adopted: The Untold Truths of Building a Family Through Adoption @lockedupliving

Neil Wallace (Audio); So We Adopted: The Untold Truths of Building a Family Through Adoption

In this conversation with Naomi Murphy and David Jones Neil shares the raw reality of adopting two siblings in 2023 in this heartfelt episode. From navigating the invasive process to managing the emotional rollercoaster, Neil provides honest insights into a journey many find daunting but rarely talk about openly. If you're considering adoption or simply curious about the unseen side of creating a unique family, this episode offers invaluable perspectives. Key Topics Covered: Neil’s motivation for writing his book after adopting two siblings The emotional challenges of the adoption process and post-placement realities How the system's focus on children can overlook the feelings of adoptive parents The impact of trauma responses and differentiating normal toddler behavior from trauma signals Strategies for managing the stress and emotional numbness during early parenting The significance of the two-week rule for coping with work stress and family challenges The disparities in emotional experiences between adoptive parents and their attachment journeys Insights into the training social workers receive and its focus on worst-case scenarios Neil’s thoughts on the fairness of resource allocation in fertility treatments The importance of humour and resilience in processing difficult life experiences Neil’s involvement in organizing a wellbeing festival and his interest in mental health Timestamps: 00:00 - Neil’s story: from infertility to adoption and writing his book   02:17 - Challenges of the adoption process and systemic focus on protecting children   05:03 - Why Neil decided to document his journey for others   09:32 - The emotional complexity of IVF and the invasive procedures involved   12:32 - Feelings of fairness and resource disparity in fertility treatments   15:51 - Managing stress: the two-week rule for coping with family and work challenges   18:22 - Improving adoption training and system efficiency   24:52 - Differentiating trauma responses from normal behaviour in children   27:36 - The emotional numbness during initial parenting and its protective role   29:52 - How different attachment experiences influence adoptive parents' journeys   38:28 - Addressing unspoken gratitude and the myths of family obligations   41:28 - The role of humour in Neil’s approach to life’s difficulties   43:19 - Decision-making style and embracing uncertainty in challenging situations   46:26 - Neil’s journey into being a published author and his involvement in the wellbeing festival   48:19 - Final thoughts and key takeaways Notable Quotes: "The process is very child focused, but understanding your own feelings is a whole other conversation." "You have to think of adoption as a long game—it's about forming attachments slowly, not instant bonds."

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What we get wrong about conspiracy theorists and narcissists (with Jon Ronson) Osher Günsberg

What we get wrong about conspiracy theorists and narcissists (with Jon Ronson)

Why are we so fascinated by the people on the absolute fringes of society? When someone adopts a worldview that seems completely detached from consensus reality, what is the sequence of thoughts and experiences that led them there? In this episode, I’m joined by the legendary journalist, author, and documentary maker Jon Ronson. For twenty-five years, Jon has been doing the hard work of looking directly at human behaviour that most of us would prefer to avoid. Jon’s career has been defined by his ability to humanise the people we’ve been taught to fear or dismiss. Taken from the full-length episode, here’s a few tasty morsels to chew on today including: ▪️Why we often reward psychopathic traits by making those people our CEOs and political leaders. ▪️What happens when extreme personalities feed off each other, and how do they pull us into their orbit. ▪️How ordinary people drift into ideological bubbles, and what it takes to understand the urge to belong to a tribe. This is a fascinating, thoughtful, and very funny chat with one of the greats. *Links:* ▪️Find out more about Jon here: https://jonronson.com/ *More from Osher:* 🎙 Better Than Yesterday podcast: https://tinyurl.com/BTYpodcast 📬 Sign up to the Better Than Yesterday newsletter: https://makeitbetterthanyesterday.kit.com/7d9d18dcee 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/osher_gunsberg 📖 Books: https://linktr.ee/osher_gunsberg 📺 Story Club on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@storyclublive 🎟️ Story Club tickets: https://linktr.ee/osher_gunsberg

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