update: met with homegirl today. she apologized, we talked it through, and we're on the same page of expectations. this is social work + being the bigger person ig
took a mental health day, bc my boss' made an unsupportive call when a resident misgendered me and got volatile, which ofc nearly sent me spiraling. he *apparently* had a revelation after i had choice words for him and is now providing an appropriate reprimand...but the damage has already been done