Tishnerys Targaryen
@tisharaquel.blacksky.app
She/Her/Big Dawg One of those artistic dames.
It was so hot yesterday one of my tape ins slid right out my head like…
Melting Hot Doll on Couch
ALT: Melting Hot Doll on Couch
static.klipy.com
Listen- I’m going to see that Wicker movie about that lonely yt woman being put thru the mattress by a hand basket and my homegirls and I are going to have a grand ol’ time talking about it 😂
My friend made some prints & photo puzzles of my brother for me. He’s always showing my family and I love during the times we honor our heartbreaks and acknowledge our grief. My big brother was beautiful with a smile that would make the sun blush. Thank you for these. I’m forever grateful for you 💛
I know this grief is a thunderstorm right now that will one day pass- but I’m in need of just a small glimmer of sunshine cause all of these big feelings that wind up when I’m idle are absolutely heavy af. And quite frankly, I’m very much exhausted.
I played Tōkon Beta this weekend and I had no idea what I was doing but I was having fun beating ass.
I want to be both left alone and held tightly and kissed on the forehead. I think both are valid right now.
no one cared who I was until I put on the mask
Elle@elleisanisland.bsky.social · 2w agoWhen you've defeated the cone they put you in the Hannibal Lector
Just gonna wish a generalized happy birthday to all 27 of my male cancer friends, 12 of which are Kappas 🍻😭
I don’t know if this is a neurodivergent thing but people who repeat the same point in a conversation or like repeat a request in the same interaction really piss me off 😂 I’m not talking about like twice- like… Cause my processing delayed but I’m not deaf I heard you the first and second time 😂
Having a hard time. I miss my brother. I wish I could smoke with him and listen to his musings.
One of these days I’m going to listen to my intuition cause whenever I have strange encounters or interactions with folks I second guessing myself, thinking I’m probably doing too much- Only for that feeling to be completely validated after all.
I made all the things I hate into a salsa. Mango and avocados with bbq salmon and cilantro lime rice. It’s supposed to be a bowl but fuck the rules.
Conflict is inevitable. The recovery is where the real difference is made. That’s where the emotional safety begins. TO ME. These are my therapy thoughts lol. And this is something I still work on now. I hardly move with intention to hurt anyone, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t, or won’t again.
Your intentions do not always matter when it comes to impact. Can they be shared in attempts to provide clarity? Sure. But acknowledgement of the impact of your actions on somebody is still important. Continuing to overshadow their feelings with self-defense feels like invalidation very quickly.
You can be a good person and still make mistakes in connections, and I think a lot of folks forget that. That’s why when someone says you hurt them or fell short of an expectation, instead of listening, some will defend their ‘intentions’ because you jump to think they’re saying you’re a bad person.
I try not to be a way about how people move about regular things because we all got shit going on- I exercise grace because your world doesn’t revolve around me and mine doesn’t revolve around you.
Because their views are through the lens of the oppressors. American colonialist accountability is literally prison so of course they feel that way.
quaithe of the shadow asshai@clarkconquers.bsky.social · last mo.Men equate accountability as ostracism and punishment
And this idea men have about accountability is interesting considering most aren’t even emotionally intelligent enough to know what that even looks like.
As a man, dying on a morality hill when a situation involves life or death is an interesting choice TO ME. Especially when you still have artists like Chris brown, Future, Drake, etc in rotation.
I reposted the Vic Mensa reel about Megan and a male acquaintance DMd me arguing she was a bad friend to Kelsey and lied about fucking Tory. His entire point was that she should be “accountable” and I have thoughts…
My friend really came over the other week and put groceries in my fridge, cleaned my kitchen and bathroom and laid in bed with me. She literally just wanted me to be still and grieve my brother and I have to keep telling her every chance I get how much that meant to me.
Needed a distraction. Went into the backlog and finished a set. Lots of new and old pieces make for such a pretty and fun scene. Definitely a top fave. Woodland Mushrooms 🍄
