August 10,2026 Breakfast and Bondage - Aloha 🌺 @libidex-daily-deal.bsky.social

5/10/26 Mothers Day means spoiling Our POLY MOM with a floral bouquet arranged by Wielder, a blackbottom pie brought by Zeus(biological Mom). I cooked cheddar/applewood bacon au gratin potatoes, a dijon cheddar green bean casserole, sauteed spring asparagus, and a mango ginger ham. #bdsmlifestyle

5/7/26 It’s been a while since I last posted. I hosted YellowBandit from Chicagoland followed by letherpet from Connecticut. I also hosted a Wet and Messy Predicament Game before my June 4 LGBTQPLUS pool party with Adult Swim at 9pm. Retirement at 57 didn’t mean Retiring from Living. #bdsmlifestyle

4/14/26 Just Ask Poly- Man Child-Gay Edition * Dishonest - even with himself * Secretive * Trust Issues * Not Comfortable with their Sexuality so Also not comfortable with others sexuality * Uses the Phrase “I should be all you need” * Smothering * Pretty but at a Cost 💲 #sabrinacarpenter

4/14/26 Cooking with Poly 😈 Last night a man with the buns of a ballet dancer clenched those gorgeous buns of steel every time I my flogger hit the target. Today I am cooking. 2 Chicken Breasts 1 can broth 2 tbl garlic/basil 1 tbl paprika 1 tsp salt/pepper 5oz parmesan 1 pint cream 8 hours low

Do you think they can see me through the tint?

4/12/26 I KNOW MY WORTH! I have known my Worth since my LDS Excommunication by Choice at the age of 25. Sometimes I forget and allow others to judge my worth as a Kinky Gay Male. Fortunately it is a temporary condition and I end up Stronger and More Resilient. I am a Loud Proud Sensual Sadist. #DOM

4/6/26 Who Wants to Love Forever? 🎶 So Much to Unpack And We Can Love Forever. Statement Not a Question Freddy Mercury Rest In Love @prismaticpup.bsky.social Wants to Live and Love Forever. Open Honest Sexuality is The Course Few Take. Saying the Words AND Living Them is Living Forever #LOVE

4/6/26 A BDSM lifestyle is so much more than posting pics of hot men in latex or leather or pup gear or abdl or little or drag or critters or furries in fur suits. I was challenged for 5 years every night to “ Be Open- Be Honest” and only after losing him to Cancer was the Life Lesson Learned. #bdsm

4/3/26 When dinner is on in 45 minutes and your submissive needs attention and the onions, mushrooms, and garlic need sautéing, what’s a responsible DOM to do? 💡A Caught in the Act Straitjacket keeps him safe, secure, and entertained, or not, while I finish my pork birria cottage pie. #bdsmlifestyle

3/29/26 Learning to Not Give a F@&K and Living Life With Less Real Regrets is Freedom that Seldom Comes to the Young. To Those Who Think Gay Life is Over By 40, THINK AGAIN. Last Night @prismaticpup.bsky.social and Went Bar Hopping and Dancing at South Beach. Strangers Shouted Their Safe Words. #pup

3/24/26 Having a Rubber Bondage Gimp Dog 🐕 Who is Also Husband in Heart ❤️ Mind 🧠 and Lawfully Married is a Dream 26 Years in the Making and a Lifetime Journey Full of Surprises. Even When I Get Pissed at Him , I Can Put Him in His Rubber Gimp Suit and SLOOOOOWLY Turn Up the EStim. 😈#bdsmlifestyle

For those who want me to take off the gasmask! 🙄

3/22/26 The Real Scandal is the Nerve of this DOM Dirty Old Man French Kissing Young Stud Pups Like @prismaticpup.bsky.social and EVEN having Him Lay his Sexy Pupper Head on my Lap IN PUBLIC and IN BROAD DAYLIGHT! 😳🤯😳🤯. It Helps to Have No Shame and No Fucks Left to Give. This is Real Freedom. #BDSM

3/24/26 At 68 still adjusting to the scandalous no belt on my latex trousers.Latex in public is nothing new. I have been wearing latex in the US, Europe, Asia, and South America for 38 years. I have worn latex in the streets of Moscow and St Petersburg but NEVER WITHOUT A BELT! 🤯 #libidex.uk #latex

3/20/26 I am Ray I am Collin Once I Was 100% Ray Nowadays the Lines Blur Collin Gets to Play I Am Sensually Sadistic Dom Sensually Devoted Sub Embracing and Celebrating Both Sides of the Same Coin

3/18/26 “ Don’t Let Yourself Be Hurt This Time”. As an Older Than Dirt BDSM DOM I am surprised how many young trusting male identified submissives get hurt by young doms who haven’t a clue as to what BDSM is about. BDSM is an exchange of IDEAS , FEELINGS, EMOTIONS , and TRUST.It Isn’t About Clicks.

3/16/26 I am an International Pillion who boards a plane wearing a full leather kit , boots, and helmet, a carry-on, and a credit card. I am the Bitch on the Back who Yields the Flogger and Fisting Glove After the Ride. This is What Being Gay and 68 Years Old Looks Like!

3/16/26 Analyzing Ray “Pillion” Chiselhurst- Country Manor House Only Child Nanny till age 5 Private Boarding School Since 5 Holidays without Parents Financially Affluent but Emotionally Bankrupt Since Birth Eaton Oxford or Cambridge Lone Wolf 🐺 TPE is a distancing mechanism Thoughts?

3/16/26 I am starting to understand that my excessive extrovert behavior is exhausting to the excessive introverts in my life. I am best taken in small doses or bi- annual visits. I can’t change my nature but I can accept the limitations of others in dealing with me. #extrovert #dom #bdsmlifestyle

3/13/26 3:57am LA 80’s I was Collin for 5 minutes to a leatherman I had cruised for months. I couldn’t handle the predicament rope bondage and didn’t understand the meaning behind the submission. He wouldn’t allow me to sleep on the floor tied up to his bed. He drove me back to the bar in silence 😢

3/13/26 2:48am Ray’s Theme ( cont.) …There’s nothing to feel. Only it’s lonely when no one is near. There’s no where to turn to, nowhere to go. No one to turn to, no one I know. I built a wall just to keep them away block after block, day after day. The wall’s construction resumed when I left.

3/13/26 2:36 am Ray’s Theme I built a wall, a wall that surrounds me. It started so small, this wall that surrounds me. Now no one can see all the hurt that I hide. Nothing can touch me safely inside. I built a wall to keep them away. Block after block, day after day. Nothing can hurt me ….. #dom

3/10/26 Monday night my 30 something diaper boy arrived and I went out of my comfort zone and verbally humiliated him. I used a soft, low voice but the words used were derogatory and degrading. His cock went hard with each softly spoken insult. His daddy is 52. He likes older men. I’m 68 😳 #olddom

When a Sexy German 🇩🇪 who Lives in Switzerland 🇨🇭 visiting Curacao 🇨🇼 Arrives at Your Doorstep for a Flogging and a Fisting the Aftercare is a Sensual Full Body Massage by a Selfish Bastard Dom from Texas. This Photo was Edited Because His Tattoos are Stunning and Recognizable. #bdsmlifestyle #dom

6/14/26 To Those of You Who Ghost and Those of You Who are Ghosted Being Scared is A Human Trait NONE of Us Can Shake. It’s Safe Online Where You Can Be Anything and Anyone- Even a Photoshopped or Fake Version of Yourself. Once You Decide to Meet You Cross Into THE REALITY ZONE. #understanding #bdsm

2/13/2026 Even Doms with 37 years of experience get ghosted when arrangements were made to meet for dinner, flogging, cbt, and tit torture afterwards. Fortunately Bali Curacao 🇨🇼 has amazing Tom Kha Ga to ease the pain 😂😂😂😂 #bdsmlifestyle #dom #soup

2/13/26 Thoughts of a 68 Year Old Dom DOMs with ego have no place in bdsm. I tie up more 20 somethings now because they try the young ego driven doms who can be so out of touch with what bdsm is all about:a consent driven emotionally and physically safe exchange of power and intellect. #dom

1/6/26 At 12:25pm we reached our 20 hour goal after a flogging session. Submissives give consent to being physically and emotionally abused and humiliated. This exchange of trust and desire by subs for a doms skills, common sense, and compassion can reframe past trauma where consent was not given.

1/6 Happy New Years. We recently passed Hour 16.Sleeping in bondage was intermittent with the Dom waking up early to piss. Do not harm comes to mind. A submissive trusts with often unwavering fealty.This 25 yr old submissive from New Orleans was a complete stranger to me less than 24 hours ago. #dom