Ty

@tyb.hm

I'm not doing separate accounts anymore... while I'll post geary stuff, I'm also going to share other aspects from my life as well, like techy/nerdy stuff, or my doggos. 🏠: Chicago, IL, USA

Andy: “My personal life is hanging by a thread, that’s all.” Nigel: “Well, join the club. That’s what happens when you start doing well at work, darling. Let me know when your whole life goes up in smoke. That means it’s time for a promotion.”

Bild

That terrifying moment between the code pushing to production, and the first users actually exercising the new features in the application... GearBlast:US 2026 registration has so far been running pretty smooth though, so I guess I pulled it off 🤷‍♂️ 😅 🎉

So much this- if you want to learn to switch, let's try: I'll tie you up in a way that we'll both like and I'll explain what I'm doing for the first few mins, then give you a proper scene... then after, you do the same to me... and I can coach you through it. I love getting to help someone learn!

🐾 The Cum Burglar 🫳🏻 @GearblastUSA@pupzuki.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Just a friendly PSA: if you are conversing with another submissive and you want them to tie you up, it doesn’t hurt/may increase your play chances if you atleast offer to switch. Sometimes they don’t mind just tying you up, other times they will jump at the opportunity to flip😜

When Gracie decides to snuggle, there’s no debate… we’ll be snuggling!

Bild

Baby, where the hell is my husband? What is taking him so long to find me? Tell him if you see him, baby, if you see him Tell him, tell him he should holler

Bild

Got to show @subpupspot.bsky.social one of my favorite bondage setups this weekend… inflatable mattress under the sleepsack which is roped down to the table, have the sub get in, do up the sleepsack very tight, then inflate the mattress so everything gets even tighter

Bild

Apparently I offended a lot of people when I played with @itskuva.bsky.social back in June and put him in loose asymmetrical bondage… So this weekend we made sure to keep it as symmetrical and as tight as possible 😈

Bild

Because I haven’t played enough hockey in the last 12 days (sarcasm)… what’s one more game…?! LOLOLOLOLOL

Bild

When the choice is to sit on the couch with the humans, or on the floor with the doggos… 🤣

Bild

"Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster. For when you gaze long into the abyss, the abyss also gazes into you." ~Nietzsche

"Proximity is what most often creates understanding, empathy, and compassion... Proximity changes perceptions." [Wallis, Jim. The False White Gospel, 2024] I've been thinking about this a lot lately...

Looking forward to the Market Days Classic hockey tournament that the Chicago Gay Hockey Association is hosting soon... Who else am I going to see on the ice?

Bild

Some new toys arrived the other day... what say you? Do I need to post a photo of someone wearing one of them? (These aren't magnetic... they actually close with a screw, so they are very secure once properly installed)

Two metallic heavy steal testicle weights, next to a Post-It notepad for scale (the larger of the two looks bigger than the Post-It note)Heavy steel testicle/ball weight sitting on a kitchen scale with nothing else on it... the scale is showing that it weights 2lbs 13.3oz... that's 1.28kg for metric folks.

This is a real problem... I've seen several sites over the years have to rework features, or shut down entirely because they can't accept common methods of payment or banks refuse them as customers. Doing work for a small non-profit, even I had to make changes to appease the pmt processor, or no $$

Nia@mustelocentrism.london · last yr.

Meme, upper text: The Myth of Artistic Freedom

Man says: I want to draw it 

Woman says: I want to see it 

MasterCard and Visa logos say: I DON'T!

Bottom text: ISN'T THERE SOME RANDOM PAYMENT PROCESSOR YOU FORGOT TO ASK?

Really appreciate the few people who reached out with kind messages the last while. Pouring your heart and soul into community can be really draining at times, and I question if it's really worth it. Those acts of kindness can mean the difference between persevering and walking away. With ❤️, Ty

What’s that @subpupspot.bsky.social? The bitch suit over your catsuit wasn’t tight enough? Don’t worry, these leather straps can go much tighter, and you can struggle all you want against them!

Bild

I wasn't close with this person, but I'd met him a few times going back 10+ years - this is still a loss that hurts. In less than 2 years this is the 3rd person I've personally known in the kink community who has died doing inhalant play alone, and I know there's more. For fuck's sake, play safer.

BDThonger 🔜 Fist Fest@bdthonger.bsky.social · last yr.

As some of you may know, a member of the Chicago FF community passed away this week due to an overdose of Maximum Impact. My deepest condolences to their loved ones for their loss. For those who may not know, Maximum Impact (ethyl chloride) is a dangerous product. It's been around in the FF ...

I wasn’t allowed out of the steel Parus restraints and chains until @itskuva.bsky.social said I could be out… little did he know that I was going to turn the tables on him. And yes, I was feeling particularly sadistic, which is why he’s in loose asymmetrical bondage 😈

Bild