Susie 🗡️ @ SPX C3

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I 🤍 evil women Lesbian illustrator & AD for grocery. 🪶 they / she 🪶 29 🪶 Member of the corvidae family

If you have a Gmail account, you need to read this. Google's AI now scans your emails and attachments, bank statements, tax files, medical letters, all of it. It turned on by default, and there's a class-action lawsuit over how. Here are 5 moves to shut it off, the switch is hidden in two places:

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SPX is in just two weeks! I’ll be debuting a new memoir (24 pages) called Sympathetic. It’s about a six month period of my life between a traumatic event that happened while I was traveling, and the music that helped me heal. 16+ readers only for sensitive subject matter!

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"My little butterfly wings are getting kinda tired." Dolly knew the power of leading with love. She is, and will always be, an inspiration and an example. She's been a guiding light in my life and so many others. An angel on earth went home. We'll always love you, Dolly.

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my wife has a friend who sent Dolly Parton a painting she made & a letter explaining how much Dolly's music meant to her while she was transitioning. Dolly responded to it personally & paid for her top surgery. Sounds like an urban legend but it's real. I think we're going to more stories like this.

the average tech exec and venture capitalist and honestly an alarming amount of bay area software engineers have close to zero interaction or connection with regular people, and the richer they are, the more isolated they've become. They have built rationalizations for everything.

Amanda Mull@amandamull.bsky.social · last wk.

Tech execs do not have, like, a theory of mind for people who aren’t tech execs. If they did, they wouldn’t be so frequently baffled by how repulsive normal people think their whole deal is right now

The best and most meaningful growth of my life has almost always come from doing things that are at least a little uncomfortable or a little scary. I think this is true for relationships too. If you try your hardest to make nobody mad at you, you will end up trying to please bad people.

Maladroithe@maladroithe.bsky.social · 2w ago

Discomfort is an essential part of growth and wouldn’t it be so embarrassing to be the exact same person thirty years from now, in a totally different world, because you were so averse to discomfort?

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Once you start noticing how the incapacity to handle discomfort affects how people live their lives it's actually pretty shocking how it ruins pretty much every conceivable aspect of existence. Interpersonal relationships, romantic and platonic. Career and education opportunities. Your politics Your willingness to go anywhere. The kind of food you eat. The kind of art you expose yourself to and your ability to read it. It's never just one thing, it touches everything, and once you notice it it's like suddenly being able to see germs or something. Just this horrific catastrophe people look at you askance for screaming about. As I grow older and see what became of my friends and peers who could not learn to handle discomfort, the more I'm like. This is a genuine societal issue
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Increasing my discomfort tolerance has also been one of the greatest assets to improving my mental health.

everyone wants a evil fictional woman until she's Too Evil. or too scantily dressed. or commits fictional crimes on account of being evil. or is a little mean sometimes. or doesn't fit into any of the other boxes people force women into. can anyone hear me i feel like i'm going fucking insane