Aaron Foley

@aaronkfoley.bsky.social

Bylines and books. Documenting history, sometimes making it. Detroit expert and expat. Black gay elder millennial — it’s a lot! Sorta like Elle Woods except I’ll recap Beyond the Gates for you. Unserious thoughts with occasional bursts of intellect.

Good morning. Donald Faison should’ve said the “disco-dancing, Oscar Wilde-reading, Streisand-ticket holding friend of Dorothy” line in Waiting to Exhale and “faggot, gay, homo, it’s all the same” line in Clueless.

I’m going to write more on this somehow but one big thing that has changed recently in Detroit that didn’t exist in my lifetime is the stigma of repping the city when you live in CERTAIN suburbs. Cause Harper Woods is just another eastside hood at this point. Oak Park is just 7 Mile with synagogues.

Saw this vid of Teena Marie talking about taking her daughters, plural, to see Aretha backstage at a show. Someone in the comments reminded that Maya Rudolph is Teena’s goddaughter. Maya was/is in a Prince tribute band but her godmother’s situationship was Prince’s worst enemy. My brand of chaos.

98% of the time if I go to an event alone I’m good — always see someone I know, can enjoy my own company, etc. That 2% when it’s evident I need a wingman though? Takes me to the depths of my self-esteem I haven’t seen since the ‘90s

We were having a conversation about where the highest concentration of scammers are, Nigeria or Atlanta? And I piped in and said the actual final boss of scammers is the Black gay bottom with a corporate AMEX.

That mixing feature on Apple Music when you’re on shuffle is diabolical and catches me off guard every time. You’ll be listening to Neither One of Us Wants to Be the First to Say Goodbye transitioning to I Can Tell

Think I missed my calling in whatever it is Marie Kondo and them be doing because I’ve been organizing a friend’s house on and off for the past few days and with the way it’s been lifting more emotional than physical weight off said friend, HGTV might need to see me

I wrote something on how Detroit’s mayor wore Cartier frames in public, the first(?) time a sitting mayor has done so, and how it reflects a larger culture shift pushed by influencers — including one who unexpectedly died last weekend: michiganchronicle.com/a-bejeweled-...

A Bejeweled Detroit Style is Going Mainstream. Its Biggest Influencer Won’t Live to See It

A Bejeweled Detroit Style is Going Mainstream. Its Biggest Influencer Won’t Live to See It

michiganchronicle.com

At this restaurant I shall not name and remembered the pettiest reason why I haven’t been here in a while cause they have books on display from every local author and none of my shit lmao. And don’t let my mama come here cause she’d be talking to the manager about it

RIP Jesse Jackson, whose colorful personal life inspired the play “Purpose” originally staged in Chicago with Tamara Tunie as a politico’s long-suffering wife successively played by LaTanya Richardson after its move to Broadway, thus clearing her schedule to star in #BeyondTheGates

MC Lyte in “Cold Rock a Party” says “wetter than the waters of Kalamazoo” in one verse and how did this slip past me? Cause I’ve been listening to this song since middle school, but anyway ma’am, what water in Kalamazoo?