Alex Freidus

@alexfreidus.bsky.social

schools, race, & inequality | author of "Unequal Lessons: School Diversity and Educational Inequality in New York City" | momming & cooking & running & reading romance & mystery | she/her | personal account www.alexandrafreidus.com

Anyway, your problem isn‘t finding the time to take notes. The problem is that taking notes is thinking and thinking has to be done by someone. women have been doing a lot of metacognition that looks like a task when it’s really thinking.

I mean, I *guess* Pride and Prejudice might be considered a slow burn, but more in the way cartoon characters catch fire and don’t notice it until just as they’re about to become a mound of soot with eyeballs.

“When I wrote that letter,” replied Darcy, “I believed myself perfectly calm and cool; but I am since convinced that it was written in a dreadful bitterness of spirit.” There are legions of guys on message boards and in people’s replies who need to have this hot-iron branded onto their asses.

One thing I don’t think men understand is that rape and assault are so ubiquitous—and so perpetually immune from consequence or recognition—that many women learn to talk about these incidents as of they’re mere inconveniences. We are not allowed to treat them with more gravity.

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My teenager just came home from his FREE summer camp organized by NYC Public Schools at a glass studio where he is making a neon sign and proudly announced: "I learned to use a new kind of blow torch and I have my first battle wound." Sometimes I love raising kids in New York.

so no, it isn’t hard to imagine that someone who believes so strongly in their right to do whatever the fuck they want no matter who it harms would later be revealed to show that exact trait again in a different way, and this will certainly not be where it ends. the tattoo told us everything already

This morning I was on a walk in Fort Greene and I passed Spike Lee chilling on a bench drinking coffee. I try to be a cool NYer but double-checke in case I was srong and he nodded and smiled and said, "Knicks in five!" instead of good morning.

It's easier for media to portray the election as an attack on American Jews than to delve into what NY-10 really was: The second most Jewish Congressional district in the US having a referendum between two Jewish candidates on what it means to do Jewish politics in the age of Trump and Netanyahu.

Eli Valley@elivalley.bsky.social · last mo.

A beautiful day for Zionists to project their blistering, bottomless self-hatred onto Jews who refuse to assimilate into fascist norms:

Michael A. Cohen (NOT TRUMP'S FORMER FIX... & G
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Tikun Olam Jews ... and a daily reminder of the decades-long
failure of Jewish communal institutions to foster a strong
sense of Jewish identity (though in an environment virtually
free of open anti-Semitism, it was always going to be a
herculean effort) x.com/JewishWonk/sta..
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This is a difficult thing for outsiders to grasp, but the Jews
involved in this leftist faction are mostly secular, assimilated,
and actively hostile to Jewish communal life.
Like socialist movements of the past, they are accepted while ..
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