So glad I grew up under a matriarch who taught me to never depend on a man's money. I'm not, nor have I ever been, impressed by dicks or dollars. If you're talking to me you will need to come up with something more substantial than that.
In patriarchy, all men were/are supposed to do is show they could provide and protect. Too few men have evolved beyond that sense of identity, even as society has (largely?) shifted. That’s why high earners are shocked when their wives complain or leave, because they’re fulfilling the standard.