Last weekend was good… had the privilege of sitting for a strikingly handsome bootblack at the Tool Shed Friday evening
Big Dumb Bear
@bigdumbbear.bsky.social
6'3"/190 cm, 240 lbs/110 kg bear in Palm Springs, California. Married, demi, submissive. Partial to cigar men and leather bears. Dad to a couple of amazing boys. BigDumbBear on Hank Social, Recon, and Scruff; cpuready on Instagram. BLUF #5146.
Last summer in France was hot; this summer was even hotter. Hat tip: @mascularstudio.bsky.social August 2025
Some notes on these pictures: 1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?
I am now on Hank Social. Same screen name. hanksocial.com/u/bigdumbbear
BigDumbBear (@BigDumbBear)
Cigars. Leather. Bears. Service.
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Probably not gonna wear this hat to BLUF night next weekend 😅
Good morning from Palm Springs! The days are getting shorter... which means it's finally getting cool enough for morning walks.
Cooler weather means morning hikes are on again for the season here in Palm Springs
Caught up with a high school classmate today... "One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…." I'm impressed by 16-year-old me.
I generally read as unapproachable, I know. I tend towards being quiet and respectful towards others, especially fellas I really want to get naked with. (I blame the Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention Policy - I was a student there in 1990.) I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go.
Wishing the inimitable @bearspanks.bsky.social the happiest of birthdays today - it's my 57th and his 45th. Spankings gladly accepted, obvs.
Practicing Resting Bear Face for deployment in LA next month
Proof that the most handsome Dads are generally found at Palm Springs pool parties 🥵
@tattedcigardad.bsky.social · 4w agoPool party time!
Morning, son. Fetch your Dad a cup of tea, would ya? There’s a good boy.
If I were to wear hankies in my back pockets, what colors would you expect to see!?
The Southern exception: when a boy says “Hey, boys” to a group of Sirs or other superior men This also applies if you call me Sir without discussing the matter beforehand If you’re not from the South and do either of these things, i *may* have words with you
Day 6: still locked for @mentordadsir.bsky.social Three more sleeps until #Delta2026
Day 4 locked for @mentordadsir.bsky.social Five more days till #Delta2026
#FCF: @pikemanville.bsky.social definitely fits that description, woof 🥵