In the middle of all this porn and such, I’d like to just stop for a minute and thank @woofymcgrrr.bsky.social for being the best friend and partner this Bear could hope for. Thirty-two years and counting and I couldn’t be happier - he’s an incredible man. Now, everyone get back to sexy times. 😈
Big Dumb Bear
@bigdumbbear.bsky.social
6'3"/190 cm, 240 lbs/110 kg bear in Palm Springs, California. Married, demi, submissive. Partial to cigar men and leather bears. Dad to a couple of amazing boys. BigDumbBear on Hank Social, Recon, and Scruff; cpuready on Instagram. BLUF #5146.
I'm not personally a fan of #fcf for a couple of reasons - I rarely see a dick pic that's in and of itself compelling (hey, I wanna see the man it's attached to!). Also? My own dick doesn't look great in pictures (circumcision scars, plus a short fat dick looks really small on a 6 foot 3 fella).
sadly this also appears to potentially apply to GOM, Dad/son, and other consensual activities i enjoy www.404media.co/uk-crime-and...
In the UK, Face Sitting Porn Might Land You in Jail
The Crime and Policing Act, which goes into force on November 6, criminalizes possessing or publishing strangulation or suffocation porn, as well as some types of "close familial relatives" roleplay.
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When going for a walk with handsome fellas such as these, I need to remember that 1, I'm a leaker and 2, wearing light colored shorts such as these isn't ideal in that situation
Hear no evil. See no evil. Saaanoooevvilll…uhmmm #DesertLife @edarlingtonia.bsky.social @bigdumbbear.bsky.social 🎥 @gaytv.bsky.social
just had an incredibly good evening with a buddy but coming home to the news that Susan Collins is gone is maybe even a tiny lil' bit better 💦
The first quadraphonic LP I ever bought (and one of the gayest)
At the Eagle Cathedral City with a handsome fella from DC yesterday
Gay bars would be a whole lot more awesome if there was a single, dedicated bar station that sold absolutely nothing but one single cup of ordinary draft beer with a tap-to-pay panel that charged $5 including tip: tap your card, grab your beer, and go
Stood next to a fella wearing an American fireman’s uniform at a costume party tonight; I was wearing a French one. The contrast was insane - he looked ready to put out a fire; I looked like I miiight be able to deal with a crème brûlée incident if wasn’t on a smoke break or at the beach in August
Absolutely no idea what’s happening here or what I’m looking at… a total mystery
Pro tip: if you’re headed to the Cathedral City Eagle, they don’t take cash! Didn’t have a card on me last night; thankfully, Apple Pay worked just fine. Pretty sure that’s the first time I didn’t pay cash at a bar in California.
Created a moderation list to block the bot accounts that just repost my stuff: their last 50 posts have been *only* reposts, no original content. You can subscribe to this list by opening this link and clicking subscribe and choosing mute or block. bsky.app/profile/did:...
Last weekend was good… had the privilege of sitting for a strikingly handsome bootblack at the Tool Shed Friday evening
Last summer in France was hot; this summer was even hotter. Hat tip: @mascularstudio.bsky.social August 2025
Some notes on these pictures: 1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?
I am now on Hank Social. Same screen name. hanksocial.com/u/bigdumbbear
BigDumbBear (@BigDumbBear)
Cigars. Leather. Bears. Service.
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Probably not gonna wear this hat to BLUF night next weekend 😅
Good morning from Palm Springs! The days are getting shorter... which means it's finally getting cool enough for morning walks.
Cooler weather means morning hikes are on again for the season here in Palm Springs
Caught up with a high school classmate today... "One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…." I'm impressed by 16-year-old me.
I generally read as unapproachable, I know. I tend towards being quiet and respectful towards others, especially fellas I really want to get naked with. (I blame the Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention Policy - I was a student there in 1990.) I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go.
Wishing the inimitable @bearspanks.bsky.social the happiest of birthdays today - it's my 57th and his 45th. Spankings gladly accepted, obvs.