Brrr!

@brrrthebear.bsky.social

Professional Cartoon Bear 🐻‍❄️ One fifth of subparseshow.bsky.social 🎬 Doing the gosh dang bestest I can 🧸 My undercover human form goes by Floyd 🧔‍♀️

I sometimes wonder if I could roll into a con with a day pass that just has my regular name on it, and see if I could pull off the lost and bemused vibe of a parent who's brought their kids to the furry con for a day and has no idea what's going on.

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thinking about the pride speeches from last year, where someone said "I'm not your average trans girl, I code websites and play League of Legends" gurl. that is exactly ur average trans girl.

enby, non-conforming, agender, fluid, etc have never much connected with me. I know I'm Cisn't, but need words that aren't the above. Internally, I been using the term Gender Convenient: a malleable gender that's determined by external circumstances to reduce social friction.

there's a guy who volunteers at my work who is always affirming my bear gender 🥺 "You really do remind me of a bear", and "If I were Prime Minister, I'd make it so you were a bear" I don't know if he knows how much that means to me, but it gives me gender euphoria like you wouldn't believe 💙 🐻‍❄️

tired of the "#1 dad" nonsense. if you're a dad, stop treating it like a joke and post your actual national dad ranking. i'm # 492,018, which is actually really high up there, but more importantly it lets me enter ranked dad lobbies where i can get matched up for fistfights with dads of my caliber