Cassandrus

@cassandrusb.bsky.social

I walked on UC Berkeley's campus for the first time ever today. As I did, I felt a ghost of a missed life course through me. Brandeis was a bad fit for me, and I wonder if I had gone someplace where I could have found my people, I would have thrived and not developed the hangups I have.

I encourage people to read the entire thread, but wanted to quote this so people saw the book title. I often find myself nodding in agreement with Dr. Hicks's posts, and I think that many could benefit from reading this book.

Cat Hicks@grimalkina.bsky.social · 2mo ago

What have psychologists learned about "firming up the self" and reducing that uncertainty? I'll tackle that in another post! This is the COUNTDOWN to preorders for THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SOFTWARE TEAMS on June 23!

I napped this evening (collapsed out of exhaustion, really - my cat's doing poorly) and dreamt I was in a fun little tavern. Went outside to where there was a small fire where others were gathered, and I got the sense that I knew them and was appreciated by them. Why couldn't that be my reality?

@bskyrad.io "Blueski Radio"? That's...not how I envisioned it being pronounced. Nice track list, though. Absolutely is channeling the SC fog. Wish I were over on that side of the mountains instead of in my apartment on the bay side.

Graf, on why it was important for him to use Pride tape in warm-ups: "Hockey's for everyone. Just wanted to support. The fans were really good. They're showing their support and showing their support for us too. It was a great night."

Here's a regular white guy (literally "Chad") not a protester. because, "It seemed pointless, or just a way for people to expiate their sense of guilt." Chad witnessed something shattering. And, that all changed in a moment. Excellent article!

One of those latecomers was a 46-year-old documentary filmmaker named Chad Knutson. On the morning after Good was killed, he was at home with his two hound dogs, watching a live feed from the Whipple Building, where ICE is based, a five-minute drive from his house. A protester had laid a rose on a makeshift memorial to Good. As Knutson watched, an ICE agent took the rose, put it in his lapel, and then mockingly gave it to a female ICE agent. They both laughed.

Knutson told me he had never been a protester. It seemed pointless, or just a way for people to expiate their sense of guilt. But when he saw those ICE agents laughing, something broke inside him.

“I grab my keys, I grab a coat, and drive over,” Knutson told me. “I barely park my car and I’m running out screaming and crying, ‘You stole a fucking flower from a dead woman. Like, are any of you human anymore?
David Brauer@dbrauer.net · 6mo ago

The Atlantic Magazine just dropped a tremendous story on the Minnesota Resistance. The author is a war correspondent & sees the echoes of leaderless community empowerment around the globe: www.theatlantic.com/politics/202... (supposed to be a gift link, might not work, it’s in Apple News, too.)

Last night of FC was better. The ballroom panel was quite lovely (though I am still bitter that con policies essentially prevented me from fursuiting for it) and I played a nice game of Red Dragon Inn in the gaming room.

Am at Further Confusion. Not having fun yet. :-/ But my fun comes in different ways than other furs, and it has been a long time since I trod the halls of the San Jose Convention Center.

2025 is done. Good riddance. 2026 is going to be challenging, also. Even if I will be gainfully employed again, there's a lot of things I am afraid of on that horizon. Some that may happen, and some that may never happen again. And this world still feels so alien to me.

Seems like there's more people crying election fraud about 2024 in the last few days. This worries me - both because I believe it's a spike in the spread of misinformation from abroad and because people, either due to trauma or desperation, are buying it. That undermines *us*, not the fascists.

Statement Re: OU Discrimination Investigation Today, my client, Mel Curth, submitted her appeal of the University's Institutional Equity Office finding that she engaged in arbitrary and capricious grading of a student's assignment in violation of that student's religious liberty.