Claudia Tyler-Mae

@claudiatmuk.bsky.social

Sparkling somewhere on the trans-spectrum. Supportive, but cynical. Prone to hyper-fixation, impractical adventures and spending years hiding under the duvet. Only interested in people who get it, not people who want it.

The saddest thing about this whole EHRC farce is that it's forcing people to deminish their existence into the smallest, least offensive, blandest package just to ask for tolerance. "Don't pick on me, I'm an obedient conforming citizen. I try to look as much like Karen from accounts as possible."

Given the pent-up feelings about the EHRC's bathroom disaster, I can guarantee one trans person is going to have a confrontation in the toilet today, and the bigots and scolds will be on it like flies on dung - "See! This is what we're fighting against!" Look after yourselves out there.

Trans woman saying "I don't like being called transgender, I'm not one of those weekenders or straight men who wear panties". Hmmm... okay then, you seem to me to be as intolerant as the people you hate, just you've drawn the line in a different place.

When I was 13 we had to burn a load of trash, including a newspaper that had an article featuring a full page picture of the most stunning punk woman. I stood downwind of the fire breathing in the smoke, hoping some magic would make me wake up looking like her. You know - normal teenage boy stuff.

I did everything they asked, played nicely, played their games. - Fought for a GP referral to GIC - Waited 16 months for a GIC appointment - Answered the invasive questions - Took their homeopathic doses of HRT - Saved the NHS money by having private SRS - Took statutory declarations 1/8

Oh, they're happy to let you get to the information, so long as you pass through the gift shop on the way there. And the duty free shop. And the other gift shop. And the toll booth. And the pre-crime unit. And the public survey. And the charity store. And... what was it you were thinking of again?

Tressie McMillan Cottom@tressiemcphd.bsky.social · 3w ago

The goal is to satisfy the *emotions* behind every information need without providing real information.

Overwhelmed with the sense that the internet has become a way for the discontent to let off steam just enough that they don't actually start to influence anything or threaten the status quo. Oh, and that dropping stones into the pond to try to make waves is an utterly thankless task. Happy Monday!

I keep thinking a sequel to Weird Science would be interesting if done right. Lisa would find modern kids attitudes both endearing and perplexing. She'd think ChatGPT was a pocket calculator. She'd despair how some of the nerds had turned out. And she'd definitely turn one of them into a girl.

At the start of the week I came up with a really neat story idea for doing gender stuff without the usual tropes and wish fulfilment bits.... ... and after one of *those* weeks, I can't remember what it was. It would have been amazing, honest.

Hey there baby transes. "We all start somewhere" implies you have to go on a journey. Sometimes you just have to figure out where you already are. Next March I will have been "figuring it out" for thirty years. Yeah, I have bad wardrobe decisions older than you are.

Wearing a Miss Selfridge dress that I absolutely adored.Big fluffy jacket and knee boots

Nearly everyone I know is hanging on to a job, or out of work. Not thriving. Not building a career. Not optimistic. Not building new things. Not excited about projects. Not hoping for a promotion. Hanging on. We could be changing the world, but we're forced into survival mode.

People keep focussing on dramatic rearranging of the deckchairs - electoral reform, devolution, blah blah blah - instead of addressing the fact that our politicians and media are deeply committed to keeping the policies that are screwing us all over. Deckchairs will not change the Titanic.