Jamber

@clit4us.bsky.social

intersex lady :)

i really think the crux of transfeminism needs to be "hey let's all figure this out together" bc basically ANY analysis made by exclusively 1 type of trans person is fundamentally ignorant to the opposite experience we HAVE to work together, or we only have half the puzzle pieces

mr. brobeck@mothpiss.bsky.social · yesterday

i can't stand guys who are like "we experience transmisogyny too!", but i have to give them grace when ALL popular discourse on the term defines it as smth that DOES affect us both everyone Actually Read whipping girl NOWWW

Just told my eight year old the news, that David Ellison has fired James Gunn from DC. He had tears in his eyes, then did the Peacemaker dance, and said "Gunnkanda forever"- which is the sort of pop culture crossover I can celebrate.

I hope queer people in this country keep inventing new and exciting ways to invisiblize each others' suffering and invent imaginary +1 advantages and bonuses out of each others' pain until the heat death of the universe because we deserve it

being intersex and nonbinary really is such a mindscrew cis adults were happy to alter my biology/gender via medical intervention when I was a child absent consent - but if I personally wanted other hormones or puberty blockers, I was too young to give permission

Lots of queer people do this thing where they treat stuff that gets you seen as more “fully” queer/trans as if they’re privileges, because inside the queer community they’re considered legitimizing. But in practice you are marginalized for those things, not privileged.