I will always remember and think fondly of the first trans woman I got close to. I was so in my egg, but suddenly there was this gorgeous woman in front of me that we just couldn’t stop looking at each other across the room at this event.

So I got wireless milk pumps for my titties in preparing for a girl I am trying to kiss who’s visiting… 🥰🥰🥰

I don’t understand, Oma went to hospice and then left for a “better place,” but she should have just gone to a better hospice facility the first time. Why go somewhere and then need to go to a better one instea- Oh-OHHHH

FACT: you should be sappier with your friends and loved ones. there is no reason not to be.

Vanguard republicans push a wedge of transphobia into the culture and a blue wave comes to smooth it all out, eroding the foundation of rights and normalizing the new standards

I'm becoming increasingly alienated and detached from it all. Everyone just argues about the discourse of the day and nothing changes. Rinse and repeat every single day. It's a fool's freedom. It gives us the illusion of control by making us feel like we have agency when we actually don't.

“You are infringing on the time and brainpower of people by pushing "your" content that little/no of your brainpower went into” is such a banger

Kybosh@kybosh.bsky.social · last wk.

I like seeing the dev of the SNES core on the Pocket actually telling one of these dudes off. Holy shit.

Cupcake you’re not online so much lately- Correct. Shit hits differently after you learn about limbic capitalism.

People who squirt, will even after 1000 times, still smell it to “make sure it’s not just pee.” Babe, it’s okay, it’s not pee- chill.

Trotzdem, a happy lady who got fucked real good and had a great time- in spite of everything hard in her life.

My libido is quite low from low thyroid function, naturally. So desire isn’t really the name of the game for my sex life lately. So lately I’m practicing some intentional, pursuit of sex for the sake of connection and pleasure- AKA scheduled sex with my partner. Some notes 🧵

they should make grad school that isn't an exploitative meat grinder

Doctor called me yesterday: "how are you feeling? Are you feeling tired, bad, and like doing nothing?" Me: yes, exactly, so the labs show this is expected? Her: Correct, your thyroid meds are too still, I am increasing them to (about double). I guess I feel validated in my hunch. Small wins.

So the super power is just saying no. Great, so just be like a German? Wow, how underwhelming 🙄

Cupcake, think different (or something)-era 🏳️‍⚧️🧁💭@cupcake.rip · 3w ago

Ngl, I was really hoping for super powers. I read this and my ego did the "this is worthless to me" meme. Baby girl, Nothing you're going to do will change people to make them want you more, to make them want to treat you better. We just gotta say "No, that's not my job"- and hold that drawn line

I'm at the part of "It Takes One to Tango: How I Rescued My Marriage with Almost No Help from My Spouse" where the big reveal happens: The skill for staying married? Choosing too. Choosing to stay, to cope, to accept that you will fight and you won't change them. You learn to just be happy anyway.

Studying differentiation in relationships is wild as an abused, neurodivergent person. Like oh, I can just do/say that? > I've given more than I wanted to give, and I'm angry about it. What do I want to choose going forward? > I want her to understand. She may not. I can still make the decision.

Cleaning this bong without alcohol is fucking impossible tier 💀😫😵

Pussy eaten so good you ugly cry and trauma-tension-release-shake in her arms afterwards 🫪😵‍💫🫠😵💀

dude have you heard of the latest drug on the street? it's called Having A Good Time. all the kids are doing it. you gotta get in on this

Clear communication is a super power. Managing ambiguity is safe, clear, and kind. We are helping to heal a whole community- exemplifying “hey there’s a good way to just negotiate what you want with dignity, clarity, and shamelessness.” We grow together- one hook-up negotiation at a time 💕

Cupcake, think different (or something)-era 🏳️‍⚧️🧁💭@cupcake.rip · last mo.

I just asked a cute friend out. Lil avoidant bean I had to circle back and say “hey hun that was me asking you out, to be explicitly clear. Can we talk about that?”

I just asked a cute friend out. Lil avoidant bean I had to circle back and say “hey hun that was me asking you out, to be explicitly clear. Can we talk about that?”

So this marks my joining of the surpreme Thursday injection gang. Fitting to sync to KTP’s cycle since I’m referencing her guide anyway 😉

Cupcake, think different (or something)-era 🏳️‍⚧️🧁💭@cupcake.rip · last mo.

Last night I took my first dose of DIY EE. Patches were fine enough I guess, but I’m ready to get back to cyberpunk transness again thank you. I’d rather just source my own, better hormones than rely on the German system’s medicalization and gatekeeping checks. Also started thyroid meds. YOLO 📈

Last night I took my first dose of DIY EE. Patches were fine enough I guess, but I’m ready to get back to cyberpunk transness again thank you. I’d rather just source my own, better hormones than rely on the German system’s medicalization and gatekeeping checks. Also started thyroid meds. YOLO 📈

My therapist recommends giving me absolute and total dominion over the entire planet. Y'know, for my anxiety

Reading “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel now, about halfway through it already. I like it, but I always wish for more genderqueer representation since we’re talking about identity, gender roles, and shame in these books a lot. Taps the “I guess someday I write my own book” sign…

Life sure is a fucking comedy.

Hard to be depressed for too long when I look like this 💕

Cue the Sigur Rós and run the bath- Cupcake enters her hypothyroidism (under active) arc.

i don't think this is a hot take but if it is, it shouldn't be. opposition to GLP-1 meds is an attack on body autonomy the same as being anti-vax, anti-abortion, or anti-hrt. the existence of GLP-1 meds is a breakthrough for both T2 diabetes and obesity. wishing ill and rejecting it is anti science.

merr-itt came from outer space@merrittk.com · 2mo ago

hot take but i think a lot of people actually want there to be some kind of horrible health hazard associated with GLP-1 meds because their existence challenges their protestant ethic-esque philosophy of bodies

Baby goblin, I miss you so much- every single day I miss you. We were there for each other through everything. I’m so grateful for your love and companionship. You are in my heart, always 💕