despite the internet's love of boxing people into their past actions and refusing progress let me remind you ▶️ it's okay to be wrong ▶️ it's okay to not know something ▶️ it's okay to change your opinion based on new knowledge learning is the only way you're going to evolve
breathe 🌬️ you’ll pull through 🌠🪽
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yeah sex is cool but have you ever had someone ask you to infodump about your OC and they keep asking questions and you can see them falling in love with your OC in real time
Communication is really the heart of every relationship, but when you're at a distance you have to remember to be using your words often because there's no way to communicate the day to day of unspoken gestures and the information that come through presence. And all relationships require active work
intrusive image of Joshua and Hazuki standing at the border between their cities arguing while Hanekoma mediates (bc he won't allow either to cross into their cities like children)
if you have an LDR you tell your partner everything you know they should know and you communicate honestly and proactively and always leave ample room for their emotions. LDRs are forged in trust and delicate by nature. don't give your partner reason to doubt you.
job hunting and surviving has killed my social battery. i use it up on chasing and applying to things and when I sit down at the computer for me time i can only manage to interact with people on my alt side hustle account and my partners, and even then I feel so bad bc i have so little to offer. :/
Excited to report the one who introduced me to this disgusting negligence 😌
Interesting: There’s now an anonymous, moderated list of companies that stop responding after you interviewed with them
the sheer amount of art that could be drawn from my OC + novels... *kicking my feet and gazing dreamily* cannot fuckin wait until I have a job again so I'm happy and motivated and freed up to knuckle down and get these stories written.
remembering how I was driven to have to run away from home to prove a point to my abusive parents. back then there wasn't a bustling internet but thankfully there is now & resources for minors. if you're in a scary position, know you CAN be helped. you're not alone & your bravery will be rewarded.
It's not enough to be against AI, you need to be pro art. You need to be a champion of the art you love, you need to share that passion and joy, and do what you can to support the artists who make it, because it's not enough to hate AI, to hate what it's doing to art and media; you gotta love.
TLU taught me critical life lessons as a kid. I would not be the same person I am if it weren't for watching real evocative titles. Bonus films that shaped me: FernGully, Brave Little Toaster, and Land Before Time
Kids need/deserve traumatic films. Films that show death or lasting consequences that aren't resolved almost instantly. Fear, anger, grief and frustration should be part of kids movies. Kids arent stupid, they feel big emotions just like adults, they deserve to see those experiences reflected back.
stress induced sickness on a weekend even. 😭 my body caught up with my mind ig
"This is what my best looks like right now" is a perfectly acceptable thing to say when you know you're doing everything you can with what you're up against internally and/or externally. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty or inferior. You are not.
🎵 Somewhere over the rainbow there's a bird that wants to bite you while you work at your computer. 🌈
This is your reminder to never stop pushing your limits and learning from others. 💜
thinking about post NEO joshneku again and how much potential they have to really make something of their relationship
When it starts feeling like getting a job is a privilege when back in your day you used to be able to GET A JOB BECAUSE YOU WANTED TO WORK.
sure will be nice when unemployment finally goes through so I can slow down and not have to piss my every waking moment away frantically job hunting and actually be able to write and create in between!!!!! please fucking please...
Happy Birthday @blackquadrant.bsky.social 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 You are a perpetual bright point in the gloom of the internet and i know that good things are just around the corner for you ❤️🩷🧡💛💚💙🩵💜🤎🖤🩶🤍 I hope you have a wonderful birthday, you deserve only the best!