Dan Savage

@dansavage.bsky.social

Host of the Savage Lovecast, author of Savage Love. "A deviant of the highest order!" — The Daily Caller

Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before. Hear all about her dusty experience on this week's After Action Report. What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm? Write up your experience (good or bad) and send it to Q@Savage.Love!

As we come up on the time of the night when The Great Chicago Fire started 155 years ago today, a family heirloom: plates that survived the Fire, straw from their packing excelsior scorched into their glazed surfaces.

Two cracked dinner plates in an octagonal frame, with patterns of burnt straw, in a variety of colors.

A gay man is about to move in with his boyfriend. The boyfriend (who makes a lot more money than the caller,) is asking the caller to pitch in to a shared vacation fund in lieu of full rent. Is this fair? Is there a way to make their arrangement more equitable?

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On this week's Magnum Edition, it’s a bisexuality brawl with sex therapist Claire Perelman! Dan and Claire talk about that new YouGov poll, why so many bi people stay closeted, and how bi people can overcome the stigma. New Savage Lovecast out now!

On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve? Listen to her full story on this week's After Action Report! And then send us your stories at Q@Savage.Love

This caller is having a tattoo conundrum. Should she let her fiancé off the hook with the removal of a previous tattoo? The answer seems pretty obvious, but it's a good jumping off point to discuss tattoos, their permanence, meaning, and possible removal. Do you have tattoo regrets?

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Somewhere in the valley that lies between monogamy and polyamory lives the concept of being "MONOGAMISH". The word and concept was uttered by Dan and took off, probably because a lot of people were finding themselves in this valley. For full vid, go to buff.ly/X3GrSx6

Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy! Listen to this week's After Action Report for the full story! Tell us your story, right away! Send it to Q@Savage.Love

A woman from Southeast Asia is considering getting into a lavender marriage in order keep her queerness secret from her conservative family. She knows that in the West this is considered ethically questionable. But she might do it anyway. Should she?

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If having dirty pics is disqualifying criteria for public office, no one under 50 is qualified! If you wanna make history by sending a hot guy who looks good in a harness to Congress, you can donate to Gallant’s campaign. New Savage Lovecast out now!

We have Dr. Eugene Fan on Savage Lovecast this week to discuss a myriad of sexual health issues and to answer a caller's question about erections after a heart attack. Out tomorrow!

No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot. Hear her story on this week's After Action Report, out now! Send your stories to Q@Savage.Love.

Have any of you dealt with intrusive thoughts? This caller is battling a particularly annoying one. Do you have advice on how to get this mediocre man out of her head when she's having sex with her wonderful man?

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Instances of genuine human connection ARE possible in dating app culture. It's good to be reminded of that at times. Share your stories of genuine connection via apps in the comments! New episode of Savage.Love/Lovecast is out now!

Actor Julian Shaw is finally coming out...as straight! And though some have accused him of being "gay for pay" he says he never accepted a fee and is also coming out to set the record...straight! Julian is our guest this week on Savage Lovecast, out tomorrow!

Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend. Packing checklist: Kink outfits ✅️ Consent Form ✅️ Waste bag ✅️ Ability to witness your partner get railed by someone else ✅️ How did it really go? Listen to After Action Report to find out! And send us your stories to Q@Savage.Love