Elle

@eilowny.bsky.social

🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 Born/Fae 🇨🇦 Bides ♀️ She/Her 🏳️‍🌈 Bi/Pan, Demi/Nebula 💍 Married - Zoom ♿ Neurospicy Edition; Dyslexic, ADHD, Anxiety, MDD, C-PTSD 🐾 Snep 🐍 Snek 🫰🏻 STAY A may be bad but A'm perfectly guid a' it! 🔞 No minors! MDNI!

Today has been a massively wonderful day. Had a good counselling session. Giving in my signed offer letter to my new workplace. Best of all: Rising Dough Bakery had big bottle of Irn Bru & a drink I found a few years ago that tastes exactly like home: Falkirk 💗🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Thank absolute goodness - I got the job at Rexall. I'm sick to the back teeth of my current workplace. Not respecting trauma/CPTSD Not respecting me being dyslexic And being toxic AF. Gave my 2 weeks notice already - I can't wait til my last day at this shiteshow - I will not miss is at all!

So, my interview went pretty well I think. A former coworker works there in management, was part of the interview & really talked me up during it. It's part time but current workplace is toxic as hell & very mentally damaging (trauma associated with it/person associated with it.) I need out ASAP

Omg, some people (read as arseholes) clearly only live to create chaos & fuck over good people around them. I've had to change my phone number tonight because of 1 such arsehole. Can this year just please F off & let me get better mentally & physically. I DO NOT need any more setbacks. 😭

Like a wound, grief does not heal overnight. As the days pass, let the empty space fill with memories, let the sorrow be replaced with gratitude for the good times, the kind words, and most of all, the part of them that made you who you are.

We honor those we have cherished by keeping them in our memories and singing songs of their glory. The pain you feel is not that of a scar, but the loss staking a claim in your heart that ensures you will never forget them.

Kahless tells us that loss is a bitter cup we all must drink from occasionally. The grief of loss is the other side of deep love. Love, no matter the pain later, is never wasted. When the pain of loss visits you, remember the love as well, so those departed will live on forever.

I only need help with this until the end of the year as my benefits should restart again in January. Please quote post & share - Anything donated helps! I'm disabled, experiencing financial issues & need to access mental & physical health care #HelpSky #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive #DisabledCrowdFund

Elle@eilowny.bsky.social · 3w ago

Please requote/repost this if you are able to spare a moment to do so. If you also choose to donate - anything donated helps. Thank you

Yup. Work F'ing sucks. I need out of here ASAP. Any mutuals know of anywhere hiring for: Retail Retail management Retail Supervisor Pharmacy Assistant Please let me know thanks 💗

If you could spare a moment to quote post/donate I'd appreciate it so much. Thank you - Anything helps 💗 I'm a disabled, insulin dependant diabetic suffering from mental & physical health issues due to trauma, violence & a car accident in 2025 #HelpSky #MutualAid #DisabledCrowdFund #fundsky

Elle@eilowny.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Every share & $ counts - please help if you can. TLDR; Financial struggles & I have poor mental & physical health due to trauma from abuse/ violence & a car accident in Oct 2025. Thank you gofund.me/9c297ab03

Welp, guess I'll be looking for a new job once I've got my financial situation resolved. Basically feeling like because I hurt my wrist last year & because of violence against me, I lost out on my promotion at work. Fuck this world & the fucking arseholes who ruin it for the good folx in the world

Yes every woman has been harassed, many assaulted. But every woman has also experienced invisible loss from moments she avoided harassment. She felt a space becoming unsafe, so she left, while men stayed on. And in leaving, she lost: opportunities, experiences, learning, promotions, even simply fun.