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documenting random stuff??? maybe? also opinions! sharing things i want to share they/them - ISTP - pervert 💛🤍💜🖤 - 🩷💛🩵 - 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

don't you hate it when you join a community expecting to connect only to realize it's just a random friend group (or worse, a polycule) that ignores newcomers and shouldn't be open in the first place?

the most important technique in software engineering is logging if you have good logs, you can figure everything out and that's even more true nowadays as you get help from agents

when did it become chic to waste people's time. what ever happened to brevity is the soul of wit. a skilled writer says what they need in as little words as possible. i do not respect these masturbatory pseudo intellectuals just because they use marxist language in videos about spongebob.

i'll call myself a nice guy since lots of guys are bad "uhm actually nice guys aren't actually nice guys" okayy... i'll call myself a soft boy then? "ummm actually soft boys abuse women" ???? OKAY THEN SINCE I'M OPENLY ENBY I SHALL CALL MYSELF A TRANSMAXXER??? "transmaxxer is an incel term..."

Apparently you can just walk into a book store and ask if they'd be willing to sell your zine and they'll maybe even say yes. It's what I did today and now five copies of my zine will be for sale at a book store in Tokyo soon.

[Q] what's a good way to cheer up a guy? my boyfriend has been feeling down and up lately. i want him to be happy all the time. how can i cheer him up, make him laugh and take life a little less seriously? [A] B-l-o-w job [2011]

vinted is the WORST shopping website i've ever used. you need to click 3 times to login with email. jean sizes are mixed with elastic sizes which doesn't make sense. they requested my phone number AFTER creating my account, a very bad practice that only glowie websites do like facebook and google...

recently learned that you just let the fries inside the fryer, even if the oil is cooling a little. taking them out of the fryer to let the oil heat back up is bad because the fries are soaking the oil that coats them. so now i get why fryers have a 195c option while fries and oil say 175c...

Being at, or even just near, the centre of attention feels a lot more comfortable once you start living in a way that is true to your sense of self.

At the end of the day, my real transition wasn't from boy to girl but from wallflower to social butterfly, but the latter metamorphosis couldn't have happened without the former.

i struggled to understand what "not a person (it/its)" in bios meant but then i figured that GENDER IDENTITY and EXPRESSION aren't actually the same... people can be *objectgender*, but it's not permission to dehumanize as if they were *objectexpression* (actual objectification)