Emily Katy

@itsemilykaty.bsky.social

AuDHD blogger 🌻, author of GIRL UNMASKED: HOW UNCOVERING MY AUTISM SAVED MY LIFE (The Sunday Times Bestseller) 📚 & Trustee of Autistic Girls Network 🦋 https://linktr.ee/itsemilykaty

It’s International Women’s Day 2025 and gender inequality and health inequalities still have major consequences for neurodivergent women and girls. Whilst there have been improvements (e.g. the narrowing gap of numbers of men and women diagnosed), there is still a long way to go. 🧵

Happy belated World Book Day! Let’s talk about why it is so important (a day late…) 📚 👉🏻 reading for pleasure is at an all-time low with only 1 in 3 children enjoying reading 👉🏻 reading enjoyment is at its lowest in nearly 20 years (National Literacy Trust)

Me standing in a bookshop looking up at the shelves of books

‘I felt like I didn’t belong - this is how understanding my neurodivergent brain saved my life’ for Stylist Magazine. ✍🏻 ‘…writer Emily Katy shares how being diagnosed with autism transformed how she relates to her brain.’ www.stylist.co.uk/health/menta...

“I felt like I didn’t belong – this is how understanding my neurodivergent brain saved my life”

“I wasn’t a ‘drama queen’. I wasn’t ‘stupid’ or ‘lazy’.”

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Read this recently and related heavily, even let my therapist borrow my copy 😅, and I definitely recommend it for any self diagnosed or late diagnosed people. Really, everyone should read it just so more people learn about the autistic experience. Thank you so much for writing about your experience!

Emily Katy@itsemilykaty.bsky.social · 2y ago

Today is the day!!! Girl Unmasked: How Uncovering My Autism Saved My Life (the Sunday Times Bestseller) is out NOW in paperback. 🥳 Grab a copy here: linktr.ee/itsemilykaty Thank you to everyone who has read and recommended #GirlUnmasked. ❤️

Girl Unmasked: The Sunday Times Bestseller. Out now in paperback.

‘How being diagnosed with autism at 16 saved my life’ in @TheSun today ✍🏻 As my book and the article talks about, it’s not just the diagnosis. It’s the understanding of myself that came with that, the understanding from others and the adjustments I made in my life.

An article in Sun Health titled: how being diagnosed with autism at 16 saved my life

I started counselling again two weeks ago and that’s okay…sometimes we need space to talk and process things. Needing a bit of extra support is nothing to be ashamed of. 🩵

Thinking about the time I had a full-blown meltdown in my year 7 maths class because I found my teacher so scary and I had left my protractor at home. I cried hysterically, hyperventilating. And now thinking about how, as an adult, when I forget things, no-one tells me off.

When I read about how autistic people often don’t recognise authority (which is common!), I think about how I, another autistic person, am the complete opposite. I’ve always been terrified of authority & terrified of getting into trouble. Autism really is everything in extremes.

Sunshine Support UK shared a quote from a school: ‘we don’t have an attendance policy. We ask you attend IF YOU CAN. If you can’t, it’s OK. We will work together to work through the barriers’. This is a mainstream school. With 98% whole school attendance. It can be done.

‘Former patients at Scotland's biggest children's psychiatric hospital have spoken out about a culture of cruelty...’ Sad to see this today. As someone who was on a CAMHS unit as a 16yo, I know how vulnerable and scary it is. Young people deserve better. www.bbc.co.uk/news/article...

Teenage psychiatric patients told they are 'pathetic and disgusting'

A BBC investigation finds some nurses were verbally abusive and cruel towards unwell teenagers.

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