The thing about being trans and not having passing privilege is literally every day of your life you have to deal with some jackass who thinks they know your gender better than you. Every damn day
Good week for shows - Menzingers last night, Dresden Dolls tonight, Mastodon on Friday 🤘
The Dresden Dolls changing venue for their SF show from the Warfield (capacity 2400) to the Great American Music Hall (capacity 700) says a lot about how toxic Amanda Palmer is right now
Got home after a Folsom afterparty and slept for 36 hours, apparently I needed that
Rounding up all my unemployed tech friends and starting a firm specifically to unweave garbage llm bs from companies sold snake oil
Doomer trans girl, you have to go to the punk show. You have to. Restore your faith in humanity.
Working with Puddle over the past year has been such a great experience. It's been so nice to find a team of really competent people who just want to throw a good party.
julie, like boo-welry@julie.alady.top · 3w agowe just have such an awesome core team and good principles and a growing collection of material/experience to leverage and when some ppl step back or call out sick, then we have awesome friends and community members who show up to get the job done
fucking has to be done ritualistically for it to be a sex cult, otherwise it's just sparkling straight polyamory
I don't think people really understand the psychic impact of knowing that multiple times a day every day your friends, family, coworkers, neighbors, and everyone who could ever have any power over you is being flooded with agitprop designed to make them hate you
gwen howerton@kissphoria.bsky.social · last mo.i've seen this ad three times already today
I missed posting this on my actual traniversary because *gestures* but here's me on the left at Burning Man 2023 taking estrogen for the first time, and on the right at Neotropolis earlier this year. Still fucking around in the desert, but now with tits!
Looking for a topless bar? That’s, like, literally any queer bar in the city.
Part of fixing my own shit requires a realization that I don’t have inherent self-worth and I’ve been relying on external validation instead. It’s gotten worse as I’ve transitioned and compared myself to those around me. I am surrounded by so much love and connection and can’t access any of it.
It’s humbling to know that as an organizer of whatever experience, you can and will fuck up from time to time. Fixing this requires a lot of willingness to listen and deep examination of how you got to this place. It’s not fun.
Just tryna get through my four score years and ten thank you very much
Jane Natoli 🥑🚲🍍@wafoli.bsky.social · last mo.God I hope not
It’s the moments of hilarity that keep me coming back to play parties. Last night a friend of mine insisted on watching a live Formula 1 race in the middle of the orgy at 6am while surround by people fucking. Gotta respect someone who has their priorities straight.
I ran the album I'm working on through Gemini to see what it had to say. This is the sort of response that makes me super wary of using AI for artistic decisions. It didn't feel pleasure parsing through my lyrics because it can't feel pleasure, and adding "honestly" doesn't change that.
I wanna look like Hunter Schafer / Then I wanna fuck Hunter Schafer @damag3.bsky.social killed it tonight in SF!
Sometimes when writing music you just have to go into the studio and record the goddamn thing. No retakes, no repeats, first cut goes on tape and that’s it. You can double track stuff if you like but no going back and obsessing over whether the performance could have been better.
hey if you're a trans person and you do this I just want you to know we all fucking hate you
Omi Rhodes@omiswatching.bsky.social · 2mo agoWarner Bros is reaching new levels of desperation to hype up the new wizard boy show. They’re actively seeking out trans influencers to do promo and there is no hell hot enough for these traitors.
I feel like 2026 is just going to be one of those years where everyone in tech lost or gained multiple jobs
Whoooaaaa new Puddle Splash Social event just dropped? Wanna catch me, @cara.city, and the rest of the Puddle gaybies? Come thruuuu
Love it when people try to blackmail me using publicly available photos. My dude, I posted those lewds on Instagram. If you want the good stuff you can subscribe to my Onlyfans for $9.99/month. The advantage of being a public slut is that no one can out you for being a slut. It’s all here already!
You’re pushed on by numbers and punitive measures: pain, rejection, and unpaid bills. You can either play or you can crawl under a boat and waste away -- turn into salt or a flock of seagulls. Your enemies would love that. Or you can fight. The only way to load the dice is to keep on fighting.
So the reason I was in the suburban hellscape that is South SF was for an orgy. Enter the hotel room and immediately clock a femboy who is nervously sitting by himself. Once I’m settled I go up and introduce myself. He asks if I want to hug; I say yes, we embrace, and he clings to me for dear life.
Stopped by a gas station in South SF and the cashier said “hey, didn’t I catch you stealing a sandwich a few weeks ago?” My dude, I’m 41 and make tech money, why would I steal a sandwich from your shitty ass gas station?
Sage is an incredible human who deserves to feel good in her body, as we all do. Please donate what you can!
Sage Deviant 🏳️⚧️@trans.bsky.social · 2mo agoHI FRIENDS! I am launching the GoFundMe for my Facial Feminization Surgery today! I’m having to fundraise in a very short amount of time due to insurance shenanigans, so every little bit helps! Please donate if you can, reposts are deeply appreciated. 🏳️⚧️💜🏳️⚧️