Jo Ní Ghiolla Shúiligh

@jogil.bsky.social

Psychotherapist | Dubliner | animal lover | lesbian | queer feminist | “Seems like the kind of person who carries hand sanitizer” #SpéirGhorm She/They 🏳️‍🌈

Waited two weeks for my local bike shop to get and fit a rack for the back of my bike and when they finally did it was useless. Nowhere to put my rear light and also it can’t fit a pannier bag. What is the point of it then?

Anyway, I’ve been naive enough at various times to choose to have people in my life who constantly police what I do in the name of ethics. It has never been about ethics. It took me a long time to understand that, precisely because ethics matter so much to me.

Ok listen, I do my best to eat in/shop at places that meet the impeccably high ethical standards of Bluesky users AT ALL TIMES. But occasionally, I give in a buy A GF SCONE at Avoca because I haven’t had a decent one for years bc coeliac. You can object to that, but I will block you.

Sorry, my mistake! I've since learned that it is our duty to warmly welcome fascists and racists and it's our civic responsibility to respectfully debate them on Bluesky, but they have no such responsibilities cos of secret reasons I'm just too much of a lefty fag pedo commie to understand 👍

Dr Panti Bliss-Cabrera@pantibliss.bsky.social · 23h ago

I hear Twitter has become a Nazi bubble. That's not good for democracy or the public square! Do conservatives know Twitter has veered from its holy duty to be The Octagon of the market place of ideas??! Surely they will now all insist the Nazis stop driving Leftists away and make them feel welcome

About once a year, or when ever I feel like it, I go for a cycle around Malahide where I grew up. Did that today, and I was reminded how friendly the people are there, there’s just a general ease about them. Despite how utterly unaffordable it’s become, it’s kept its soul somehow.

I found this thread helpful, do thank you to Carol for posting it. I’ve spoken many times about my father’s emotionally and physically abusive behaviour. I’ve spoken about being relieved by his death, but I haven’t spoken much about those who felt deep sadness at his death.

Carol Ballantine@cballantine.bsky.social · 2d ago

Many people struggling this week with the perennial problem of a famous artist who was also a known groomer, warned about among young women. The fact that our lives are bound up with those of abusers is hard to deal with. We have been here before, we are never not here. Some writing has helped me:

As the splitting *gestures everywhere* is so intense rn, I really need to remind myself that it’s ok to be chewing something over, to be in a more reflective still place, not yet expressing opinions. That this feels difficult is information in itself.

The thing about nearing 50 and having had two decades of therapy is that you’re free to decide that anything left that hasn’t been dealt with now gets designated “charming imperfection” instead of “something to be changed immediately”.

“Dublin planning authorities have enabled the growth of a city centre hub that performs Irishness for a living and can't house the Irish who'd do the performing. Céad míle fáilte on the tea towel, a hundred thousand welcomes, and not one spare room behind the counter.”

Karl McDonald@karlusss.bsky.social · 3d ago

Hate to admit this person from Non-Dublin has some points here. Nowhere is the Dead Dublin Theory better illustrated than the proliferation of new pubs done up to look like old pubs imo. Toxic to native fauna but serving the customer base it seeks. www.westernpeople.ie/opinion/dubl...