𝓙𝓾𝓹𝔂 桃花梦游🌸

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🇺🇸🇨🇳 笔名 Hua Chi Wan (花痴丸) 🎮 Artist & BL Writer 🎨 30↑. 🚫 AI. | ENG/日本語/中文 OK | 写/画自己喜欢的 ✍️

Things that help calm the nervous system, quickly: - Box breathing (in for 4, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4, repeat) - Immerse your face in cold water (activates mammalian dive reflex) - Humming (stimulates vagus nerve) - Exercise (anything helps, outside even better) - Impeachment and removal

Chloe is gone. Thank you all for your kindness. Thank you as well for all the donations. I can upload receipts at a later time. No more donations are necessary. She will be cremated and brought home. Here’s a photo of her a short while ago when she was still well. Thank you for your kindness.

Chloe, little Shmoe.

Please pray for Chloe. Her prognosis was likely terminal; she has a mass behind her throat. We’ve done almost everything we can short of surgery. But she’s an elderly cat, and surgery wasn’t recommended. As a Hail Mary, the vet gave her a steroid shot for reducing inflammation.

Chloe in her little carrier.Chloe sleeping on her favorite mat. We call it her Chloe Roll mat.

a great dissection of why a lot of fandom drama doesn't only boil down to "these people are thinking too much about [insert series here] and need to touch grass." there's another layer to the way folks get obsessed (for parasocial/self-important rewriting/clout reasons, etc) that gets glossed over

by asneakyfox on tumblr:

one big thing i think people outside fandom (like, all fandoms, fandom in general, not any particular one) tend to misunderstand is they know it's a subculture of people who are weirdly deeply invested in fictional media, and they hear about drama caused by people in those subcultures being unhinged in not-fun ways, and they think the unhingedness comes from the fact of being overinvested in works of fiction.

which is a natural assumption, but in my experience that's not really the case? like in my experience the drama llamas in fandom are usually not the ones who are just genuinely very deeply into the fiction. i've known people who are basically thinking about star trek or x-men comics or supernatural pretty much 100% of their free time and ime that type of person is usually very nice and surprisingly functional in their regular life. when someone's a constant nexus of fandom drama it's usually not that they are obsessed with the actual work of fiction the fandom is about, it's at least one of the following:

what they're obsessed with is not the source material but their unhealthy parasocial relationships with one or more of the people who created it

what they're obsessed with is not the source material but some elaborate shared-universe subset of fanfic about it that's only barely related to the original at this point, and/or an esoteric reading-against-the-text reinterpretation of the source material (often if the canon is active and ongoing this leads to becoming actively hostile toward it for its inevitably increasing failure to conform to their preferred fanon)

what they're obsessed with is not the source material but the fandom itself and gathering clout within it, so that the source material basically only exists to them as a tool for scoring points in increasingly arcane fandom disputes

and very often you get the same person doing 2 and sometimes even all 3 of these, and that's where the trouble really starts.

My novel is now available on Yiggybean!!!!! Thank you all SO much for being so amazing, my heart is so full! Please consider getting it if you’ve been contemplating! I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on my story too! Thank you! ❤️ (Please also follow my author account @huachiwan.bsky.social)

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We invite you to join us in supporting Hua Chi Wan's launch of their debut danmei novel 💖 All orders come with a beautiful foiled bookmark and author's signature within the book. yiggybean.com/produc... 2/2

This is a personal wish of mine, but I hope people don’t read my story with another author’s lens. My story is not about Mo Ran or Chu Wanning, nor is it about Xie Lian or Hua Cheng. It’s easy to compare due to being in the same genre, but comparison is the thief of joy. Thank you all so much. 🙏❤️

Shares appreciated 🌸 I’ve been struggling a bit financially, so any purchases from me would be greatly appreciated. Between dealing with someone who still hasn’t paid me for work I’ve done, to a friend who’s been unresponsive in paying me back for merch, I’m just tired… jupypoopy.bigcartel.com

Jupy Poopy

Hi, I’m Jupy. Thank you for visiting my shop. I’m a big nerd and love to read and play games. I also enjoy cooking when I have free time.

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Someone uploaded my book onto StoryGraph, so if you want to leave a review that’d be amazing. Thank you for giving me your valuable time and reading! I only ask that people please not be mean in their reviews, and to please also look forward to the continuation of the story. Thank you so, so much.

StoryGraph page of my debut danmei novel, Ballad of the Painted Swallow. Thank you for reading!

Shares appreciated 🌸 I’ve been struggling a bit financially, so any purchases from me would be greatly appreciated. Between dealing with someone who still hasn’t paid me for work I’ve done, to a friend who’s been unresponsive in paying me back for merch, I’m just tired… jupypoopy.bigcartel.com

Jupy Poopy

Hi, I’m Jupy. Thank you for visiting my shop. I’m a big nerd and love to read and play games. I also enjoy cooking when I have free time.

jupypoopy.bigcartel.com

My sweetheart friend is also trying to sell her remaining Scum Villain standees! $30 USD each including shipping + free sticker! Only six (6) left! These standees usually sell for $55, but since they’re missing the background piece she’s trying to clearance them. Please comment to claim! #danmei

Scum villain standee front side. Scum villain standee back side. The additional hole in the base is for the background piece, which is not included in this sale.Chibi sticker design of Binghe and SQQ!