Marielle Papin

@mariellepm.bsky.social

Political Science Asst Prof | Canada Research Chair & Director, Research Institute for Urban Wellness @MacEwan University Cities, networks, climate governance and urban wellness I talk a lot about motherhood (in academia)

This is my 5th pregnancy (in 6.5 years) and every week, when I prepare my schedule for the upcoming week, I keep ignoring past me who was always so tired and unfocused at any point in her pregnancy. Forgetfulness is the reason we survive but also burn out.

Interview work: Most days are hard (why won’t they talk to me?). Many days involve self-doubt (maybe I’m doing it all wrong). Some days are great (that interview was illuminating!!). And a few days are bold (sure, I’ll reach out directly to the leader of that huge organization, they might answer).

I used to love going out for a run while listening to news podcasts. These last few weeks though I’ve only wanted to run indoors while watching Netflix. One reason is I don’t want to slip on the icy sidewalks. The other one is I really don’t want to listen to more news about our Southern neighbour.

Jan 2, 9.15 am: I’m finally back in my office, what a relief! I’m going to be able to get so much done today. Jan 2, 10.12 am: it’s quiet in here… I wonder how M&M (aka my kids) are doing at daycare today… I wish I could check in on them. Maybe I’ll find the answer scrolling through social media.

How is my pregnancy going? For several days I’ve been sending my children to their respective school and daycare with a pair of left-hand mittens of different sizes for one and a pair of right-hand mittens of different sizes for the other. So, not great?

My day started at 4.30 am because my kid was done sleeping. On the one day I’m allowed to “sleep in“. I’d argue this is less exciting than a trip to Manitoba, although I must say I’ve never been.

James McLeod@jamespmcleod.ca · 9mo ago

It is impossible for me to reconcile the kind of histrionics that some people exhibit about moving the clocks by one hour for Daylight Saving Time, when many of those same people routinely go on trips to other time zones.

Yes! Also, being recognized at a smaller institution might offer students more support than being just another student at a prestigious university. Eventually that support might be more helpful than the name of the prestigious university.

Jess Calarco@jessicacalarco.com · 10mo ago

When we push students to always choose the highest-ranked programs, we make it easier for those programs (or their faculty) to get away with treating students badly. Since that push sends the message that students should just be grateful to be there, no matter the cost.

Everybody agrees we have big global problems to solve, meanwhile BigTech is selling us AI glasses to help us figure out what to wear if it’s chilly outside. Because ultimately that‘s what most tech does: marginally improve our day-to-day and distract us from what could improve it significantly.

First trimester of pregnancy is extremely hard because: you may feel physically terrible every day for weeks; the anxiety of miscarrying is all-consuming; and you feel alone, even when you’re not. Time has never gone so slow. Yet, because it’s so common, you’re expected to just push through.