this is how i live my life. i don't blame people, i blame what happened. the only exception is when someone fucks up so bad, so egregiously, that they frankly need to be called out on their bullshit.
this is literally what I do for a living and it's called "blameless root cause" where you identify everything that went wrong without assigning blame to any one person in particular. the NTSB really went all in on this and it's one of the reasons airplane travel is/(was?) so safe in the US.