Kirsten Grady

@mrskgrady.bsky.social

Social worker. Red tape slayer. Storyteller with a Wi-Fi connection & a grudge against broken systems. Dignity > bureaucracy. Always. Social work is political. Here to advocate, share insights, and spark change. All views and opinions are my own.

Everyone supposedly knows someone who talked to Mitch McConnell. It reminds me of REO Speedwagon. 🎶Heard it from a friend who heard it from a friend who heard it from another Mitch was still kickin around. 🎶

I just heard an ad from a progressive super PAC attacking a local progressive candidate because he openly disagrees with establishment democrats. What kind of 🐎 💩 is this? Apparently, one cannot be progressive if we disagree with other dems. That's not progressive, it's control.

So, let's talk about Lindsey Graham's now open senate seat. South Carolina has elected only 2 men to this U.S. Senate seat since 1954. Over 70 years. Let that sink in for a minute. Before... Disneyland (1955) The Interstate Highway System (1956) The Beatles (1960) Barbie (1959) ZIP codes (1963)

I love the fact that Mitch is doing what Coke tried to do in the 70s. He's bringing us all together in our mutual hate for the Turtle. Coke tried to sell us on teaching the world to sing. This Mitch fiasco is teaching the world to meme.

And the Weekend at Mitchie's movie has officially jumped the shark. It's hilarious to see a bunch of people trying to pretend that they talked to him. What? Through a Ouija board? The only thing funnier than those guys are the memes and posts. I especially like this one from Massie.

Screenshot of a Facebook post by verified Congressman Thomas Massie. The post says he spoke to McConnell for about 20 minutes and jokes that McConnell said the U.S. should end the war with Iran, stop aid to Israel, stop warrantless spying on Americans, and apologized for Massie’s primary outcome. The post has 131K reactions, 6.3K comments, and 8K shares.

It's time for my annual watching of 1776. DICKINSON: Be careful, sir. History will brand Mr. Adams and his followers as traitors HANCOCK: Traitors, Mr. Dickinson? To what? The British crown? Or the British half-crown? Fortunately, there are not enough men of property in America to dictate policy

A meme image showing a dramatic scene from a historical-style legislative meeting. A man in colonial-era clothing stands and points forcefully while others sit around him at desks. Large white caption text reads: “THIS IS A REVOLUTION, DAMN IT! WE’RE GOING TO HAVE TO OFFEND SOMEBODY!”

Thinking today about William Henry Harrison, who gave the longest inaugural address in U.S. history, got sick soon after, and was dead 31 days later. Anyway, I hear 47 is threatening a very long speech soon. History is such a fascinating subject.

Do you remember in A Christmas Story when Ralphie gets his decoder ring only to find the message was, 'be sure to drink your Ovaltine'? That's like filling out agency forms and waiting for help, only to get another letter asking for more info. No wonder people give up without ever getting a cent.

When a client becomes "noncompliant," don't treat it as a character flaw but as the symptom it is. In some areas of social work, accountability is mandated. CPS, court-connected work, and other systems have different stakes. So no, we can’t always say “it’s okay.” But we can still avoid shame.

Some clients are not ready for change. Sometimes the kindest, most honest thing is saying: “If this isn’t the right time, we can close your case now and you can come back when you’re ready.” Closure does not have to be punishment. Sometimes it is a pressure release valve.

Humans are rarely black and white. We are shades of gray with messy histories, emotional trauma, and backgrounds that can make things harder than they seem. Our work with clients should reflect that.

Mutual aid is vital to our communities. It’s neighbors uniting under a shared promise...'we keep us safe.' It's how wars and hardships are survived and civilizations flourish. As Virginian delegate Carter Braxton wrote in April 1776, "A true saying of a Wit – We must hang together or separately."

Wording matters when reaching out to clients. “Tell me if you need help” can put someone in the position of admitting failure. “Tell me how I can be helpful” assumes support is normal. And support should be normal.

When an involuntary client becomes "noncompliant" you can say: “One of our agreements was that you would do X. I want to help you. What do you need from me to meet your responsibilities?” That’s accountability without humiliation.

Kids who grow up in food secure homes tend to show up to school more focused, with fewer behavior issues, and they miss fewer days. Research links SNAP access in childhood to stronger test scores and higher graduation rates. Supporting SNAP benefits just makes good sense. https://twp.ai/4hqgvc

When a client thanks me, I say I'm doing my job and I mean it. Social workers don't empower people, we support people to empower themselves. They put in the hard work to change their own lives and we provide the tools. Being part of their journey is a privilege and an honor. I love this work!

In 1990, homeownership could be achieved at the median age of 30 with an average of 3.2 years of savings, and home prices were about 3.1x the median household income. Today, it takes 10 years at 40 & prices are >5x the income. Next time someone tells you to just cut costs & save, show them the math.

Clients that don't follow through, miss appointments, or seem to lack motivation are often labeled as “noncompliant.” Behaviors are like the visible part of an iceberg...the outside manifestation of what is going on inside themselves. A missed meetong is info. It is not a full character assessment.

When social workers label someone “noncompliant” too quickly, they lose... ...the ability to model accountability. ...the ability to help. ...the clear lens of what they’re seeing. When dealing with non-compliance go back to the principles of empathy, accountability, curiosity, dignity, & respect.

This is a reminder that burnout isn't a sign of weakness. It's more about staffing issues, low pay, high workload, trauma exposure, and unrealistic expectations. Agencies need to get on board. Pizza parties are cool and all, but real self-care comes from better working conditions.

Social workers have a duty to the truth. It's so much more than just stating a fact. It means seeing the world and ourselves with a clear mind. Our strengths; our challenges; our biases. It all matters. Admitting that the world we know may not be the same world for others is hard but necessary.

Graphic with a starry outer-space background and a dark translucent text box. The image features a quote from Captain Jean-Luc Picard in large futuristic purple, blue, and green lettering: “The first duty of every Starfleet officer is to the truth, whether it’s scientific truth, or historical truth, or personal truth! It is the guiding principle on which Starfleet is based. If you can’t find it within yourself to stand up and tell the truth about what happened, you don’t deserve to wear that uniform.” The quote is attributed to Captain Jean-Luc Picard.