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Owner of Mysteria & Chronic Cosmetics 18+ | AudHD | She/Her Creator | Blogger // Moonflower // ♏︎ | ☼ Scorpio | ☽ Aquarius | ↑ Gemini Hekate | Lilith | Nyx | Michael "I am the altar." 🖕 AI #Mysteria #ChronicCosmetics

Because we call it trauma "recovery" doesn't mean it's sunshine & rainbows, even after we "process" the trauma that got us here. You get to be as dark as you need to be, for as long as you need to be, without apology. Shadows & moonlight are as beautiful & necessary as sunlight.

Being mean or cruel to you was not a demonstration of your bullies' or abusers' "strength" or "power"-- it was a confession of their weakness. And moving through the world like they do will be their ruin. Not your circus, not your monkeys. You just work your recovery today.

Your safety & stability is more important than winning any argument, proving any point, or putting anybody in their place. Do not, do not, do not get baited into putting your trauma recovery at risk because someone's being an asshole & deserves to be shown up.

I gave SecondPix a shot, but I don't reward bad behavior by keeping it quiet, especially not in grown ass adults. Last night I received a message from the owner, and then it turned into shotgun message after message and some all caps yelling when my autoresponse had already informed her I was afk.

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I hate how difficult it is to break the fact that I judge myself so harshly via other people. I end up not doing things I wanna get into because it's the auto thought of "people will see you and think you look stupid doing xyz." I just wanna get into Flow arts and dance with pretty things.

"𝐒𝐡𝐞'𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐜𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐥, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐰𝐢𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐲." ❤️ Sponsered: @mykawinchester.secondlife.bio Mysteria - Light Show Solo Poses (Adjusted fingers) MP: marketplace.secondlife.com/stores/211915 ╒══════════════╕ Details: www.flickr.com/photos/19951... ╘══════════════╛ #secondlife #SL