Order of the Good Death

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Building a meaningful, eco-friendly, & equitable end-of-life through education, resources, & legislative advocacy https://www.orderofthegooddeath.com

First, her sister died, then her mother. Both times, she was handed the same two options, and neither one felt right. So she built the third one. Meet the founder bringing aquamation to families who didn't know it was even on the table thestoryexchange.org/her-business...

Her Business, Born of Grief, Offers Mourners a Greener Goodbye Alternative

After her sister died, Candis Best struggled with how to handle her body. Best launched Leaf & Water to plan water cremations for families seeking a gentler option.

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Art can help us understand death, it can help us grieve, and sometimes, it can even help us imagine a better death. This month's Mortal Media Club features artist and curator Brianna L. Hernandez, joining us to talk about death, art, and the ways creative work can shape how we understand mortality.

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No Fixed Address is a powerful documentary that sheds light on a deeply overlooked aspect of the homelessness crisis: people’s grief following the death of someone they care about. the film explores what it means to grieve without a house & how loss echoes through a community struggling to survive

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After nearly 5 years, a major victory for death education & the right to talk openly about death. In 2021, Indiana death doula Lauren Richwine received a complaint from within the funeral industry for the supposed crime of discussing end-of-life options without a funeral director's license.

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In artist Ana Mendieta’s Silueta Series, she pressed, carved, or traced the outline of her body into soil, sand, grass, and stone. Sometimes filled with flowers, fire, or water, these forms were never permanent. They eventually faded, were washed away, or burned out.

Artist Ana Mendieta lays her naked body on the ground, arms at her side. Her body is covered with white and green flowers

Big news for sustainable death care: Maryland is now home to the largest human composting facility in the U.S., making natural organic reduction available to even more people. More options. Less environmental impact, & a growing reminder that death care can look different than what we’ve been told

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1. When we talk about death, we aren’t just talking about an end; we’re talking about the lives that came before it. The stories we tell about death are often shaped by who gets remembered, who is forgotten, and who gets to define what is worth grieving. nerdist.com/article/deat...

The Death Positive Movement Encourages Us to Face Death Directly

The death positive movement is a social justice movement fighting for everyone's access to vital resources and informatiion for a better life and death.

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This year, The Order is harnessing the power of end-of-life documentaries, films that invite us to witness the realities of death that are often hidden to spark meaningful conversations, highlight systemic issues, and reimagine what meaningful, sustainable, and equitable deathcare can look like.

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Dr. Adeti Sethi, founder of the Center for Conscious Living and Dying, will be joining us on May 6th for a conversation about community-based approaches to deathcare, how we care for the dying, support the grieving, and build systems rooted in dignity, presence, and collective responsibility.

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1. Sacred Spaces: Green Resting Places | Natural Path Sanctuary In our new Sacred Spaces: Green Resting Places series, we’re highlighting green burial grounds and the people caring for them. Cemeteries where the goal isn’t preservation, but participation in the same ecosystem that sustains life.

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Over the next few weeks, a hearing for Illinois Bill HB5425, an act to legalize natural organic reduction (aka human composting), will be heard in the Senate. This is a critical moment for the future of the bill and for expanding green funeral options in the Midwest, and we really need your help!

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Every Earth Day we talk about sustainable living. But what about sustainable dying? Modern deathcare can carry a surprising environmental footprint. Conventional burial often involves hardwood caskets, concrete vaults, & embalming chemicals. Cremation relies on fossil fuels & produces emissions.

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