Violet Pelderain

@privateduffy.bsky.social

Trying to become the girl in my dreams, one day at a time. She/Her. Hobby stuff, life, health, and occasionally smut. 18+ only please!

Caravan Palace are performing in Manchester in November 👀 heck, kinda want ngl! Could be funnnn (has not been to a gig on purpose before, esp not fem (wants to be a cute bean dancing to cute music with a date)). I guess its as good a reason as any to try & get a style together huh

Okay so like. On the one hand I wanna share my stuff & be all <: and enjoy it because I'm an attention whore. But. Like. I don't feel great doing the whole photo + vaguely suggestive caption thing? Frankly idk how to *do* any of this anymore, in a way which is mutually enjoyable & not...idk. weird?

I really hate the “I don’t owe anyone anything” mentality because we actually owe each other and this planet a lot. You don’t have to be selfless all the time or burn yourself out but you should be kind and helpful and compassionate to the best of your ability. We need to care about each other more

Fuck you burnout, I have the power of crappy intro dose adhd meds, caffeine pills, pepsi & sheer bloody-mindedness on my side! ....also am being easily distracted pls put me in a rubbr padded cell with only an ergonomic chair & PC w/ the necessary research notes 😅