Randy Scobey

@rrscobey.bsky.social

Memoirist, writer, and devoted noticer of small meaningful things. My book WHY is about surviving — my weekly essays are about what comes after. Come read about an authentic journey, intimacy, and the slow art of becoming. randyscobey.com

Five years married today, ten years together tomorrow. I love this man with my whole heart and am so grateful the Divine brought us together. And Dan, I am the lucky one 🥰💋💯

Apparently, opposing an execution means I celebrated someone else’s murder. That’s some impressive mental gymnastics. 🙄 My latest Mugwump Ramblings tackles the whataboutism, outrage, and personal attacks. Justice doesn’t need a cheering section. randyscobey.com/opposing-an-...

Opposing an Execution: The Comment Section Edition | Randy Scobey

A follow-up to When Justice Becomes a Spectator Sport: Charlie Kirk, viral violence, comment-section whataboutism, and why celebrating death isn't justice.

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I don't even know her name yet; because it doesn't matter. For now, I'll just keep calling the press secretary position as "Liar for the Billionaire Brat Baby King Wannabee. They may look different but they are the same lizard-person ( #satire , obviously I am the only lizard person of importance )

Mike Nellis@mikenellis.bsky.social · last wk.

Trump’s new press secretary seems crazier than Karoline Leavitt. She might give Natalie Harp a run for her money, too... - Defended Renee Good’s murder - Claimed Nazi Germany invented abortion - Said the Epstein files don’t matter And that's just based on a quick google search.

I went to a gay clothing-optional campground and kept every damn piece of clothing on. 😂 My new After Hours post is about body shame, desire, marriage—and discovering that freedom wasn’t finally getting naked. Freedom was realizing I didn’t have to. Free for all subscribers at randyscobey.com

My give-a-damn isn’t broken. It finally developed a budget. 😂 Not every opinion deserves space in my head, not every disagreement requires a response, and not everybody gets a vote in how I live my life. New Wayfinder: “My Give-a-Damn Isn’t Broken. It’s Just More Selective.” randyscobey.com

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It IS conversion therapy to say the only option outside of hetero marriage is celibacy. It’s cruel. “All Saints task force members say Courage uses a glorified form of conversion therapy that asks LGBTQ+ Catholics to deny their own identities, potentially at the expense of their self-worth.”

‘All Are Welcome:’ All Saints Church rallies to remain a ‘safe space’ for LGBTQ+ Catholics

The parish, which ministers to the LGBTQ+ community, opposes the Syracuse Diocese opening a chapter of Courage International.

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You can take responsibility for who you were without treating that version of yourself as a life sentence. I wrote about accountability, change, and making room for the person you’re becoming in my new essay: “The Person You Were Isn’t Evidence Against the Person You Are.”

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Governor Pritzker just called out oil companies for profiting off Trump’s illegal war in Iran. They’re making record profits while YOU’RE GETTING SCREWED. Give us our money back!

NewsNation asked me about AOC freezing her eggs, and I shared a bit about my family’s own fertility struggles. My wife went through hell with IVF, and we spent well over $25,000 to have our son. He was worth every penny, but far too many families simply can’t afford that.