A secret third thing

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It's honestly really fascinating that transphobia as a unique bigotry can only have come about following a long period of secularization. Early religious conceptualizations of gender often gave the room for a "woman's/man's soul" & this is seen in how trans ppl are often more tolerated than gay ppl

I think it's really important that people remember that the nazis never targeted "regular germans". Its just the definition of "regular germans" narrowed over time. A lot of people *in* nazi germany were able to live "normal" lives, basically until the war hit their doorstep.

Being super woke™️ sounds simple enough until you realize it requires a lot of work to seek out perspectives that get overlooked and proactively challenge your own thoughts and feelings about stuff. Turns out, deconstructing things like colonialism is a lot more like dark souls than stardew valley

I feel like one of the reasons transphobia is so sticky right now is that a lot of even "progressive" people feel like trans people are the only minority left that they feel allowed to publicly mock and they just don't want to let go of that.

Ken Jennings@kenjennings.bsky.social · 6d ago

This may be true of others but I actually got express permission from the trans community to keep NYT games and recipes. I also have a news subscription, which is arguably worse, so I had to specifically send in a written request. Took 30 days but I got approved.

News stories like this annoy me primarily because phrases like "no one questioned" just completely ignores all the women in anthropology who have not only "questioned" but also researched and documented answers a great deal for the past like 70 years.

Jens Notroff@jensnotroff.com · 5d ago

The #BronzeAge #UptonLovellShaman​'s burial in Wiltshire has long been considered an important religious figure & metalworker. It's been barely questioned someone of such status must be male. But now #aDNA analysis revealed that the body is in fact: a woman. 🏺 www.theguardian.com/commentisfre...

I know that making sense isn't the business of transphobes but like... If your gender is supposed to be entirely determined by chromosomes, then it is impossible to know the gender of anyone before 1905, and was nearly impossible for most people until the past few decades

A major part of the argument to voters appears to be "I know you want good things, but no one is as smart or good as you, so those good things don't win elections" And like, I think the appeal is that people get to hold on to the idea that they are better in some way, than most people

Gravel Influencer@gravelinfluencer.bsky.social · last wk.

I love when people argue Democrats need to run to the center by saying shit like, "We need to be careful because otherwise Republicans will paint Democrats as crime-loving commies who want to turn every kid trans!" As if Republicans are not already doing exactly that.

Seeing discourse on tiktok about cishet women being weird towards bisexual men, and I fear many may be losing the plot. The popular sentiment seems to be "cishet women can't oppress bi men, because they are men" and like... I feel like many are misunderstanding feminism here

It is weird to me that a lot of even very smart people seem to think that a randomized controlled trial is the only way to prove causation when that is simply not true. It feels like ppl learned a concept without really grasping the epistemic philosophy behind it

You ever think about how we collectively invented a myth about ppl thinking the world was flat just to protect the reputation of a man (columbus) who was wildly wrong, & mostly hated at the time, to the point where there's a good chance they gave him a boat bc they kinda hoped he wouldn't come back?

one thing I am always amazed by, is that transphobes have somehow managed to convince so many people that teenagers are too young for puberty & that hormones are some sort of dangerous complicated mystery, when, again, its literally just puberty were talking about here.

Parker Molloy@parkermolloy.com · 2w ago

On to the next part. Yeah, this is fine. The government shouldn't make medical decisions. Healthcare decisions should be left up to patients, in consultation with their parents (for minors) and doctors. /

Transgender medical care access for young people
Decisions about whether or when minors access transgender medical care should be made by parents—not politicians. Like other medical care, transgender medical care is not one-size-fits-all. It refers to a suite of treatment options, and treatment plans are individualized and unique to each patient’s needs. This medical care is backed by extensive research, and every major medical association opposes bans on care for trans youth. Parental consent has always been and should be required for minors to receive ongoing transgender medical care.

Parents’ decisions about the types of treatments that transgender teens do—or do not—receive are complex, intensive, and they must be made by doctors and families together. Parents should certainly not be criminalized, nor should politicians overrule parents seeking medical care for their child. Parents know their child best, and politicians shouldn’t interfere with parents’ rights.

I rly need other trans women to stop accepting the lie that cis lesbians are in any sense uniquely transphobic. Literally cis lesbians support trans people more than other trans people do. Don't let your (very understandable) fears get in the way of having rly cool friends