SELonSwitch 🔜 Folsom Europe

@selonswitch.bsky.social

Your friendly neighbourhood sadomasochist. 18+, nsfw mid 30s/London/open relationship/leftie.

This is in response to a vox pop interview with an experienced Dom who had a sub freak out on him over some verbal and the comments are filled with pointing a finger at the Dom despite his opening indicating they had a discussion beforehand. If something is a limit, call it out. He’s not psychic.

It’s always “the Dom never discussed consent” but never “the sub didn’t make their triggers known”. You watched Pillion and think you’re suddenly an authority on BDSM. These same folks whining about it have probably not have seen as much as a pair of furry handcuffs in person. Stay in your lane.