Ok folks. Strap on harness recommendations. Ideally based on use/experience.

I'm not going to be doing Locktober this year, mainly because of some recent irritation that means I'm going to be quite gentle with my PA for a bit. I'm not going to cum during October (of course!), but I'm wondering if anyone has ideas for alternative Locktober activities.

I hadn't been for a plugged run for a while, so when I felt like it this afternoon I made sure to choose an easy and comfy plug. I realised my mistake about 4k from home when it became clear I was getting progressively more relaxed and it wasn't going to stay in! 😬

I like the fact that my work has done a subtle "fuck you" to anti-trans guidance by now having a basket of tampons and pads in all toilets in the building rather than just the female and gender neutral ones.

Cage photos from the journey back from an event offer some additional points of interest 😁

My peach is more of a plum at the moment

And an update photo after a second night at @quaelgeist.bsky.social

And here's another view of the marks that @selonswitch.bsky.social switch gave me during my first night at @quaelgeist.bsky.social this year 😁

@selonswitch.bsky.social certainly knows how to leave an impact! 🥰 I keep getting compliments on the marks (and they've been refreshed since this photo as well) 😁

SELonSwitch 🔜 London Leather Weekend 🖤@selonswitch.bsky.social · 2w ago

Signs of a good night at @quaelgeist.bsky.social pt2: going round to @asympmaso.bsky.social hotel room to see how his gorgeous arse looks after the beating you gave him

After a bit of a delay thanks to Tuesday's travel shenanigans, I'm successfully in Berlin and comfortably settled in. I've got a few little plans lined up (catching up with friends 😏, trips to Quälgeist) but do get in touch if you're here and you think we'd get on 😁

asymptote@asympmaso.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I'm starting to get distracted thinking about Folsom Europe - just over a month until I'm in Berlin again! Looking forward to reconnecting with people and making new friends 😏😁

I'm not really locking all that often while I wait to size up my PA, but tradition is tradition

Well, I should have been on my way to Berlin now, but the UK flight disruptions mean an extra 24 hours in Bristol. On the plus side, packing tomorrow will be straight forward!

It was kinda fun to do the US dialect quiz as someone who's never lived there. I was excited to see that "bubbler" exists outside Australia, but disappointed that neither "slater" (my term) nor "chucky pig" (my favourite SW English term) were offered as options for woodlouse.

Q for chastity peeps with PAs! I've been unlocked for the last little while while I let my PA heal and size up but I'm also really missing being locked. I've tried locking over the top of my PA (CBR, now 10g=2.4mm pierced at 12g) and it's just not comfy, especially for sleeping. (1/2)

Brutalising or tenderising? Either way, I certainly had fun 😁 Hopefully there will be opportunities for more beatings when I'm in Berlin next week! 👉👈

SELonSwitch 🔜 London Leather Weekend 🖤@selonswitch.bsky.social · 4w ago

Brutalising @asympmaso.bsky.social with my favourite evil rubber toy 😈

Just chatting to a friend about formative kink memories and it led me to reopen a book of Norse mythology that was a bit of a sexual awakening for me when I was a kid. Main highlight would be this illustration by Giovanni Caselli of Loki being punished after the death of Baldr.

Achievement unlocked! Gape Keeper 85

New plug size achieved! Took the XL Egg plug (8.1" circumference) for the first time this afternoon 😊

This is the pre-Folsom Berlin crowd's reminder to order your home STI tests now, so you have ample time for return, any treatment and/or retests needed ahead of QueerSoupWeekend™️in a month

Get yourself someone who looks at you like the bananas slip chain wax money does.

For anybody who follows me who engages in pup play, a journalist reached out and wants to interview a pup for their book exploring different aspects of pets (including pet play). Anyone interested, feel free to message me and I can pass on details :)

I'm starting to get distracted thinking about Folsom Europe - just over a month until I'm in Berlin again! Looking forward to reconnecting with people and making new friends 😏😁

Quote and defend your butt card! Photos courtesy of @selonswitch.bsky.social and @kinky-tom84.bsky.social

I've been having fun getting myself set up on @subspacedboy.subjugated.club's #subclub app. You can tell a lot of thought has gone into security and ux already and I'm excited to see how it develops! Hopefully there'll be some more UK peeps around soon! Find me here: subjugated.club/@asymptote

Chastity, deep heat, clamps, stress bondage and a big drooly cock gag for @asympmaso.bsky.social

More from my trip to see @worcestermaster.bsky.social: doing fun things to my nipples can make me cum! ⚡😁⚡

WorcesterMaster@worcestermaster.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Soon after, this got messy

I hadn't realised it's London Pride tomorrow! I happen to be travelling via London tomorrow as well, but on an advance ticket so there'll be no opportunity to see anyone or anything. Oh well!

@asympmaso.bsky.social enjoying some attention to his balls

@asympmaso.bsky.social finds himself in a tricky position

On a train again, and heading off for a day of fun 😏