Shads

@shadssnep.bsky.social

She/Her. Bisexual. British 🇬🇧. Neurospicy. Husbando: beshon.bsky.social 💍

I would like to make this point loud and clear though since I did not say it last night and I don’t want my words to be misconstrued. I do not believe any of the behaviour from CF is in itself done with malicious intent (including what happened with me). But there have been some very poor…

5 folk from HR, directorate and other members of my team yesterday where we were told that the engineering team had been dissolved, that my two long serving crew could transfer to AV and that I could bid to provide the service I provide. Good way to say thanks for 16 years of service.

So, this was posted in the 2026 conbook about the equipment that I have built and operated for Confuzzled for over a decade. I am in a good position in that I haven’t signed any form of NDA so am not restricted in stating what has happened. With no prior discussion i was invited into a meeting with

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Additional scripts for cis het white men who want to be better allies: “What a weird thing to say” “Do you hear yourself right now?” “You shouldn’t say shit like that to people” “I won’t let you talk to them that way” “That’s a disgusting opinion to have” “Shut the fuck up, dude”

wow!youmadeit@wowyoumadeitemo.bsky.social · 2y ago

Cis men truly need to understand the power of saying “that’s fucked up bro why would you say that” to another cis man

So Besh reminded me the other day it’s been a year or so since I had my hysterectomy. Still one of the best things I ever did, I actually feel like a functioning human being. Some people asked me if I was going to regret it and the answer is a resounding no. Support womens healthcare yo.

I didn’t exactly have brain surgery on my 2026 bingo card but here we are. Nurses and doctors are looking after me well though. I however would not recommend gettting a hole drilled in your skull, it’s spicy 😂

Off to Disneyland again in a couple of weeks because the real world can piss off in it’s current state :P Plus one of my fav rides just finished refurbishment 🙌