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steph

@shonocondo.bsky.social

EN OK/日本語(少し) + shonocondo@gmail.com + vgen.co/shonocondo + shonocondo.neocities.org + shonocondo.etsy.com any pronouns #art

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steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 3h ago

gave up on this last year but maybe i'll revisit it one day

steph@shonocondo.bsky.social · 9mo ago

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · yesterday

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steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · last wk.

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steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 4d ago

artfighting (finale) twitch.tv/shonocondo

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · last wk.

artfighting twitch.tv/shonocondo

Leiracal @leiracal.bsky.social · 12mo ago

This concept was introduced to me as "run the dishwasher twice" and was an important part of my executive functioning recovery as well as my path to self-acceptance.

When I was at one of my lowest (mental) points in life, I couldn't get out of bed some days. I had no energy or motivation and was barely getting by.

I had therapy once per week, and on this particular week I didn't have much to 'bring' to the session. He asked how my week was and I really had nothing to say.

'What are you struggling with?' he asked.

I gestured around me and said 'I dunno man. Life.'

Not satisfied with my answer, he said 'No, what exactly are you worried about right now? What feels overwhelming? When you go home after this session, what issue will be staring at you?'

I knew the answer, but it was so ridiculous that I didn't want to say it. I wanted to have something more substantial.
Something more profound.

But I didn't.

So I told him, 'Honestly? The dishes. It's stupid, I know, but the more I look at them the more I CAN'T do them because I'll have to scrub them before I put them in the dishwasher, because the dishwasher sucks, and I just can't stand and scrub the dishes.'

I felt like an idiot even saying it.

What kind of grown ass woman is undone by a stack of dishes? There are people out there with *actual* problems, and I'm whining to my therapist about dishes?

But he nodded in understanding and then said:

'RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE.'

I began to tell him that you're not supposed to, but he stopped me.

'Why the hell aren't you supposed to? If you don't want to scrub the dishes and your dishwasher sucks, run it twice. Run it three times, who cares?! Rules do not exist.'

It blew my mind in a way that I don't think I can properly express.

That day, I went home and tossed my smelly dishes haphazardly into the dishwasher and ran it three times.

I felt like I had conquered a dragon.

The next day, I took a shower lying down.

A few days later. I folded my laundry and put them wherever the fuck they fit.

There were no longer arbitrary rules I had to follow, and it gave me the freedom to make accomplishments again.

Now that I'm in a healthier place, I rinse off my dishes and put them in the dishwasher properly. I shower standing up. I sort my laundry.

But at a time when living was a struggle instead of a blessing, I learned an incredibly important lesson:

THERE ARE NO RULES. RUN THE DISHWASHER TWICE!!!"

punkitt ‼️🧣@punkitt.bsky.social · 12mo ago

mucho texto i know but i wanted to write a lil thing about how u can treat yourself nice!!

art of a wolf girl eating broccoli and brushing her teeth. the dialogue says:
I've been an adult living on my own for a coupleyears now and since I have ADHD and bouts of Sick Brain Disease I can fall into a rut easilyESPECIALLY when it comesto taking care of myselfbut the awesome thing about being an adult is that no one is watching over your shoulder making
sure you're perfect i used to give myself shit that i wouldn't be able to eat healthier or take care of myself in an optimal way here's a cool trick tho: ANYTHINGis is better than nothing. if you can only eat a couple vegetables? buddy thats better than no vegetables. worried about brushing your teeth for like three minutes? do like ten seconds instead want to socialize more often but you're worried you can't do multi-hour events? babe you're an adult now, if you get tired you can just leave lol If you want to improve, fuck yeah, work your way up to more of whatever. starting at all is the hard part - if you can do that then you've got a lot of what you need already anyway ive crunched the numbers and treating yourself a little bit better than yesterday is actually a million times better than trying to Fix Your Life Completely and getting mad when you can't do a 180. be nice and recognize that you can live a lot of your life in first or second drafts; if you're not perfect yet? fuck it, you'll get better later! u can do it!!! woof!!

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · last wk.

artfighting twitch.tv/shonocondo

Ame Sainvrier @sainvrier.bsky.social · 2w ago

Attack/revenge 23 and 24 for Inkrat on AF and @shonocondo.bsky.social !

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 2w ago

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steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 2w ago

artfighting www.twitch.tv/shonocondo

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 4w ago

#oc

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 2w ago

artfight artfight.net/attack/16144...

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 2y ago

yaay! #月姫

Portrait of a white-haired bob malnourished guy in a loose blue kimono named Shiki holding a can of black coffee. He looks cheerful holding out a peace sign! There is a mosaic'd blob in the background

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 2w ago

artfight artfight.net/attack/16144...

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 2w ago

artfighting www.twitch.tv/shonocondo

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 2y ago

tw self harm / trypophobia #oc

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 9mo ago

Suiha @suiha.bsky.social · 3w ago

attack for @shonocondo.bsky.social #art #artfight #artfight2026

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 4w ago

truly the things you draw dont have to be canon you should just enjoy exploring characters

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 4w ago

#oc

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · last mo.

forgot to announce am in artfight this year (team tragedy) artfight.net/~shonocondo i also wouldnt mind art trading outside of the site for the month, just send me a mira robin drawing heehee..

Art Fight

An art gifting game

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steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · last mo.

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steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · last mo.

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steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · last mo.

flicking my artfight bean www.twitch.tv/shonocondo

jenn ✨@oiichyo.com · 2mo ago

i miss my doggos greatly and had the urge to draw pets..pls if you'll let me. can i draw your babies. 🔗 ko-fi.com/c/348969d271

🔞 Sketch @sumiaou.bsky.social · 2y ago

🎸🔵 Gitaroo Man ! !

milk+ visual @milkplus.moe · 3mo ago

Our Patreon piece this month features a wallpaper drawn by @shonocondo.bsky.social for our denpa yuri visual novel, Soundless! This striking piece features Mercy sitting before the two heavenly twins that changed her life. Get the full version on Patreon: www.patreon.com/posts/soundl...

preview of the soundless trio for milk+ visual's may 2026 patreon exclusive art, drawn by shonocondo. has variations. links: patreon.com/milkplus and subscribestar.adult/milkplus

steph @shonocondo.bsky.social · 3mo ago

my piece in this collection 🌉 they're going up powell st to go to the nintendo store

星空★lone@hoshizoralone.bsky.social · 3mo ago

“From Overseas, With Love” is available now!! ❤️❤️❤️ Download it here: fromoverseaswithlove.neocities.org

星空★lone @hoshizoralone.bsky.social · 3mo ago

“From Overseas, With Love” is available now!! ❤️❤️❤️ Download it here: fromoverseaswithlove.neocities.org

星空★lone@hoshizoralone.bsky.social · 3mo ago

“From Overseas, With Love” is an upcoming free-to-download digital fanzine celebrating Chinese VOCALOID / UTAU / SynthV all around the world!! The fanzine features works by a variety of incredibly talented fans in the international community, and I am SUPER excited to share it with you all!! ❤️🥹