Sole.Grief
@solegrief.bsky.social
Widow, estranged parent, alone in the world, navigating loss. I figure there may be more of us and perhaps, this is easier together.
It’s my husband’s birthday. Numbness and sadness has become a permanent state of being 😢💔
There are things you do..when you are thoughtful and kind to others, even when it’s not reciprocated. Sigh.
Did it occur to you to include me in your conversation of what to do with Mom’s ashes? Fcuking family 😡 Enjoy your trip.
The most profound act of solidarity & rebellion you can do on the daily is take care of yourself, prioritize your safety & stability. That will fundamentally annoy, infuriate, & confound your abusers & bullies-- even if they're no longer in your life. Even if they're dead.
Hi Relatives: Thank you for your texts telling me how great your life is going 😣
This is precisely where I am 😢 I have no idea how long it lasts. #Grief https://blog.aimeesuyko.com/p/the-space-between-surviving-and-living
The Space Between Surviving and Living
I’m not dying.
blog.aimeesuyko.com
It’s waking up every morning a #Grief setting in every day It’s when you see something and want to share It’s realizing new memories will never be full It’s a gaping hole in every small joy
Do you know what I miss? Stupid shit like asking hubby to take the dog out so I can watch then end of the match? You don’t realise what matters till it’s no longer there 😢
